How to Stay Sane While Living with Roommates ...

How to Stay Sane While Living with Roommates ...
By Heather • Mar 31, 2024 MD

Living with roommates is effing hard. I lived with a roommate once and I swore I'd never, ever do it again. It is a GREAT way to save money though and if you need to have roommates, don't worry, I've got the best survival kit out there for you! So, take a look below on how to stay sane while living with other people.

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1. Tune Them out Completely

Tune Them out Completely Headphones were invented for a reason.

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2. Kill 'em with Kindness

Kill 'em with Kindness Seriously, just slay them with all kinds of kindness.

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3. Set up 'quiet Hours'

Set up 'quiet Hours' This would be great if it worked right?

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4. Chore Wheel

Chore Wheel Work out chores that you actually need done, anything extra – you might be on your own. For example, if you like the floors swept a certain way, you need to take that chore.

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5. Try Splitting the Groceries, Cooking and Meals

Try Splitting the Groceries, Cooking and Meals This so, so works! Making sure that you split up everything saves money for everyone.

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6. Google Spreadsheet for Bills

Google Spreadsheet for Bills I do this with my wife and it makes it really clear what is due and when.

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7. Establish Limits

Establish Limits Lots and lots of limits.

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8. Communicate Any Plans for Public Spaces

Communicate Any Plans for Public Spaces If you are planning on having a party, make sure that you communicate it to your roommate.

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9. Shower Schedule

Shower Schedule ESPECIALLY if you have one bathroom, this is a must.

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10. Don't Get OCD about Cleaning

Don't Get OCD about Cleaning Yes, have a chore sheet but don't get OCD about it.

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11. Discuss Your Finances

Discuss Your Finances You'll need to know each other's finances if you are going to live together.

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12. Respect Each Other

Respect Each Other You've got to make sure that you both respect one another.

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13. Give Each Other Space

Give Each Other Space Seriously. Space is a must.

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15. Talk about Any Issues ASAP

Talk about Any Issues ASAP Do NOT just let issues go - you need to talk about them.

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16. Don't Bring up Stuff when You Are Pissed

Don't Bring up Stuff when You Are Pissed I know when I'm mad, I blow things up quite a bit – don't do that with your roommate.

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17. Don't Be Passive Aggressive

Don't Be Passive Aggressive Also, being passive aggressive doesn't work.

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18. Texting is Fine for Little Fights …

Texting is Fine for Little Fights … TRUST ME – texting you need to poo or that their shampoo smell is pissing you off is one thing, but save the other annoyances for in person.

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19. … Big Fights Should Be in Person

… Big Fights Should Be in Person Seriously, you don't need to get into a text war or a Twitter war. Do it in person.

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  • peony

    2016-03-31T18:45:14.625Z

    So true it an experience but also wont be in that situation again
  • Elly

    2016-03-31T21:23:45.290Z

    Using "OCD" as a verb is so rude. Please don't do that.
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