Girl Code could be best described as a set of rules and conditions that every girl should know and stick to. Most ladies think that you should never, under any circumstance, deviate from those rules because you will break the trust and solidarity of your friends and you will be condemned to a life of isolation. But, you should know that things are not always as they seem since there are also a few girl code rules that can be interpreted in many different ways. Here are a few girl code rules that shouldn’t always be followed:
Well, even though it’s very important to be a trustworthy person and an honest friend, there can be times when it’s actually bad to keep a secret, even it that secret involves another girl. Here I am talking about the times when that secret could be endangering that girl’s safety or any other person’s safety for that matter.
Even if it’s important to always be there for your friends and do everything in your power to avoid any potential conflicts between you, there are times when you should ask your friend to be a bit more understanding. Let’s say, for example, that you are throwing a party and your friend can’t stand a particular person. You’ll still have to invite their enemy to your party if that enemy happens to be your boss or another close friend of yours.
Does this rule should still apply if your friend’s boyfriend is an old friend of yours, if you are like siblings and you grew up together? Let’s say that he was your friend first and you actually introduced him to your girlfriend because you knew that they would be perfect for each other. You can see that there can be exceptions to any rule and this is clearly one of them.
Well, this can be a tricky one. It depends on how serious the relationship between your friend and your new crush really was, how long it has been since they used to date and what your friend thinks about you dating one of her exes. Just talk to them first and if they are okay with that, then just go for it, you never know where you can find true love.
When something traumatic happens to a woman, like a breakup for example, she feels like she needs to make important changes in her life to feel good again. Among these changes, one of the most common is changing the hair color or the hairstyle. Well, you shouldn’t do that if you don’t want to do it because there are a lot of other simple yet efficient things you can do to improve your mood and none of them involves changing your physical appearance.
I would like to start by saying that you should never, under any circumstance, try to steal your friend’s boyfriend because that is unacceptable among friends. But if they aren’t even together or if they haven’t even talked to each other, it would be unfair of your friend to forbid you to talk to them, especially if they know that you like them too.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t share hair, makeup or clothing advice with your friends. On the contrary, you should always try to help them pick the best outfit. Just that, there are times when it’s not that okay to share makeup products or clothes. It’s not sanitary for a start, but what if you and your friend don’t wear the same size or if she spills something that it will ruin your favorite dress or shirt? I’m sure you wouldn’t be too pleased about that.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be there for your friends or for other girls for that matter; just try to be a good person and treat others with kindness and respect. Do you know any other girl code rules that shouldn’t always be followed? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!
Sources:
reddit.com
women24.com
jezebel.com