Girl Code could be best described as a set of rules and conditions that every girl should know and stick to. Most ladies think that you should never, under any circumstance, deviate from those rules because you will break the trust and solidarity of your friends and you will be condemned to a life of isolation. But, you should know that things are not always as they seem since there are also a few girl code rules that can be interpreted in many different ways. Here are a few girl code rules that shouldn’t always be followed:
1 Never Reveal Another Girl’s Secret
Well, even though it’s very important to be a trustworthy person and an honest friend, there can be times when it’s actually bad to keep a secret, even it that secret involves another girl. Here I am talking about the times when that secret could be endangering that girl’s safety or any other person’s safety for that matter.
2 Never Invite a Friend’s Enemy to a Party
Even if it’s important to always be there for your friends and do everything in your power to avoid any potential conflicts between you, there are times when you should ask your friend to be a bit more understanding. Let’s say, for example, that you are throwing a party and your friend can’t stand a particular person. You’ll still have to invite their enemy to your party if that enemy happens to be your boss or another close friend of yours.
Does this rule should still apply if your friend’s boyfriend is an old friend of yours, if you are like siblings and you grew up together? Let’s say that he was your friend first and you actually introduced him to your girlfriend because you knew that they would be perfect for each other. You can see that there can be exceptions to any rule and this is clearly one of them.
4 Never Date a Friend’s Ex
Well, this can be a tricky one. It depends on how serious the relationship between your friend and your new crush really was, how long it has been since they used to date and what your friend thinks about you dating one of her exes. Just talk to them first and if they are okay with that, then just go for it, you never know where you can find true love.
Faiiiis a NO. If you have or had respect for that frien...
5 You Need to Change Your Hair to Feel Good about Yourself
When something traumatic happens to a woman, like a breakup for example, she feels like she needs to make important changes in her life to feel good again. Among these changes, one of the most common is changing the hair color or the hairstyle. Well, you shouldn’t do that if you don’t want to do it because there are a lot of other simple yet efficient things you can do to improve your mood and none of them involves changing your physical appearance.
6 If Your Friend is Interested in a Guy First, You Shouldn’t Try to Talk to Him
I would like to start by saying that you should never, under any circumstance, try to steal your friend’s boyfriend because that is unacceptable among friends. But if they aren’t even together or if they haven’t even talked to each other, it would be unfair of your friend to forbid you to talk to them, especially if they know that you like them too.
7 You Should Always Share Makeup Products or Clothes with Your Friends
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t share hair, makeup or clothing advice with your friends. On the contrary, you should always try to help them pick the best outfit. Just that, there are times when it’s not that okay to share makeup products or clothes. It’s not sanitary for a start, but what if you and your friend don’t wear the same size or if she spills something that it will ruin your favorite dress or shirt? I’m sure you wouldn’t be too pleased about that.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be there for your friends or for other girls for that matter; just try to be a good person and treat others with kindness and respect. Do you know any other girl code rules that shouldn’t always be followed? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!
Josie What about dating the best friend of a girlfriend's ex?
Allyfedor I'm gonna say no to 3
Malina @peony @Michelle thanks:) I'm not friends with her or even talking to either of them. thanks for the advise. it's helped me get over the both of them:)
Ritchie Lesson 1 of sucess in life is: Forgiving and Forgetting. How do I know? You would cry if I told you whats happened to me.
peony @Ritchie v she might be cool to you but not to me so glad I won't be hearing from her again yippee!!!!
Ritchie Alyx is cool its ok
Ritchie Queen sung that song Another one bites the dust. Peony relax lol
peony Another bites the dust hehehe!
Ritchie Alyx You heard of 3 Doors down, or Breaking Benjamin? Tell me some great Bands, you like. and You also Peony.. :)
Ritchie I meant even if
Ritchie Alyx, Even is Peony Blue annoys you just stay, you and me can chat :)
Alyx @peony the fact that you're still going off like it's an argument means you completely ignored 90% of my words or misunderstood EVERYTHING. Like I said, I tried to help, you insulted me and didn't even try to comprehend a word I said. So have a nice day, thanks for taking the time to be ignorant and then completely disrespectful about it peony. Have a good day. I won't be checking this article again, you can read over my comments once you're over yourself and you'll see exactly what I meant, and how you refused to try to understand what I was saying.
peony @ritchie v and another thing I haven't misunderstood her post in any way shape or form. It is what it is accusatory and childish anyway why am I even bothering talking about her whilst I could be reading a good book so you have yourself a good night
peony Hahah it's a risk indeed and if I don't speak to her again it would be too soon. She is someone I will be happy not to speak to again. I don't think I would gain a thing from her so yes she can jog on!
Ritchie Try it, its a Risk .. x x
peony @ritchie v delve a little deeper and read @malina comment and stop being superficial dos a little deeper . Step into someone's show u have got to be kidding me. Don't make me laugh!!!!
Alyx @peony again, you posted yours an hour BEFORE malinas comment. That's how your lying. You keep saying it's because you wanted to help her, but it had nothing to do with her. Like Ritchie said too, I was trying to get you to see other people's views and see it in different perspectives. But you just insult me for it lol. So I'm done helping you to grow as a person and you can live your life being one track minded. I never made it about me at all, I was trying to help you, I literally made it about you. But again, I'm done. You aren't able to actually debate or listen, you just defend yourself (for no reason) and insulte the other person. That's why I'm sure lots of people go off on you. Learning how to cope and listen when there's a disagreement or difference in views is a key part of life. You seem to be the "defense-fabricate-insult" type of person. If you had listened and thought about it you'd do an excellent job at problem solving during times when perspectives aren't all yours. And just so you know, I'm into girls and have a lovely girlfriend, so I'm sure Ritchie is a good guy, but he's really not my type, thanks. Have a good day peony. Try to see in other perspectives just once, it'll really help you grow as a person. :)
Ritchie I still Love the name " All Women Stalk " lol
Ritchie Dear Peony Blue, I know you don't but sometimes, if we take some time to step into someone elses life for a bit, we can Learn where they are coming from. I like The Quote " Walk a mile in my shoes, then Judge me " Many realationships ar eon the Rocks because people are stubbon, I know I can be a Dick, but even I know when to keep my Big mouth shut lol Its about learning how to get the best out of people, which I have learnt and, takes a while. But doing that can teach you how to get on in life and get things you want in life.
peony @ritchie v I don't have anything against a girl going out with her friends boyfriend but @malina showed concern so it came across as if she wasn't happy about so I gave my opinion unit your girlfriend decided to take it upon herself to be obstinate to the point of not even listening but it's all good all part of the fun!
Ritchie 1. Men Gossip, but its not called, Gossip.
Ritchie Like I said before if my partner wants to go out on the town with any if my make friends thats cool.
Ritchie Cry baby boohoo is a cool name, I think when I get my chatty Siamese cat thats what I will call him/her lol
Ritchie Peony cuddles and hugs are free today.
peony @Alyx cry baby stop talking about me like you are kindergarten and how was I lying? Stop taking about me like I am not here either and what is your obsession about going dinner. You do not listen and I stood up for you once when someone complained about you being a troublemaker but then like I said it's all about Alyx so run along and go and get a cuddle from Ritchie v cry baby boohoo and don't reply. I am so over you ....
Ritchie I know my Love, everybody has strong opinions, and thats what makes us individual. You both make great points. :-)
Alyx @ritchie I don't like fighting, but peony really didn't listen at all to what I was saying and tried to even lie to feel "right". It's one of many very childish argument tactics. But oh well. She won't grow in that area and her boyfriend or husband will be very controlled and won't be able to have any female friends lol. ; onto your next comments, seriously right? Lol. I don't get super insecure relationships like that. If you're so jealous of someone going to dinner with your SO or the little joke with some girl, you need to reevaluate your thoughts and see if you're mature enough to handle a relationship lol.
Ritchie I would have no problem if my partner had a meal with another guy. I think it says more about your insecurity.
britt One word circumstances... Also going to dinner or lunch alone with your friends boyfriend is unacceptable unless your related or something
Ritchie Ur both smart cookies out ur heads together and start a post
Ritchie I didnt help just then did I? Hee hee
Ritchie Omg the alyx peony WWF fight lol
peony @alyx hahahah I am laughing out of frustration. You talk too much air girlie gal. Now jog on and go and trouble someone else!!!! Jog on!
Alyx Lol peony she said hooking up not going for dinner.. Last time I checked sex and dinner are not mutually exclusive. I'm not angry, but you definitely did generalize (even before malinas comment I might add) and this doesn't bother me. What bothers me is you all are being judgmental and going "youre not a true friend if____" but really, YOU'RE not a "true" friend if you are keeping your boyfriend away from them (aren't they supposed to be friends with someone who supposedly makes you happy?) or keeping them from dating an excellent/family member, which is keeping them away from their chance at love. That's more rude than someone going for dinner with someone who is also their friend. I did read your comment, which is why I replied to you, because it was very judgmental and a very controlling mindset. If your boyfriend and your friend can't control who they go for dinner with, then jeeze what else do you control in their lives? But either way, those werent "tangents" they were opinions and TRYING to get you to see it from another perspective. But nice try with the whole "it was for malinas comment" thing even though it was over an hour before she commented lol. Either way, you generalized, made a very manipulative comment about the way other people should act and then got mad and defensive at me for trying to show another perspective to you. Oh well. You won't learn about the world or other people's feelings if you just focus on one mindset and one view on everything without consideration of people or other people's feelings/views. I'm done trying to help you see it differently since you just go into defensive mode though. Have a nice day.
peony @typo hooking up with her ex...
peony @Alyx and another thing if you took the time to read @Malina then you will realise that she appears concerned about her friend having dinner with her ex so before you get all absorbed take a deeeeeep breath and chill bill!
peony @Alyx there you go jumping to conclusions. Like you mentioned 'indicated' so that means that you have put your spin on what I said. Can I just say that you are quick to make your voice heard and it gets louder and louder now I did read your comment and you were on a tangent as per usual so all I will is don't bother having an opinion about my comments if you do not know what you are talking about. Now take a deeeeeeep breath and take time to read my comments or DON'T bother! Gosh!
Alyx @peony you're getting very defensive for no reason. Your comment indictated that ANYONE who goes for dinner with someone's boyfriend wants them. That's not true in most cases. I did read your comment, did you read mine? If I'm friends with both people, I'm not going to stop being a friend to one just because they aren't in a relationship anymore, that's not very "loyal". If they are just having dinner, there's zero issues. If they're having dinner 6 days a week and having sleepovers, then maybe question it. But either way, unless you're an extremely jealous person and are insecure with your relationship, there's zero reason to be suspicious over dinner. That's like getting mad at your boyfriend for having friends who are female, or getting mad that he joked with the female batista. I feel like you're very much getting angry over something very small. Especially since you DID generalize, then you made unreasonable assumptions on your first post.
Ritchie Alka im pulling your leg, ur ok abd make some great comments, except for when h trolled ne in the boobie post which was hilarious
Ritchie Wearing a thong
Ritchie And as for alka, i would rather sit on a porcupine
Ritchie I Like Alyx and Peony, lets alll chill go iut and get drunk and dance all night
Ritchie Ok Peoney Blue x x
Isela Hahahahahahahaha
peony @Alyx now if you took a little bit of time to read my comment I wasn't generalising. And let's face it if I broke up with a boyfriend and I discovered that she and he were having dinner then I will go mad. It is just simple loyalty and I wouldn't do to a friend either. And Alyx don't irritate me so once again read my comment and don't assume ok???
peony @ritchie v hahaha I wasn't trying to court controversy just having a laugh...sorry!
Alyx wait @peony so EVERY ONE you go to dinner with you automatically want?? I go for dinner with friends SO's all the time. As their friend I want to know the person making them happy. I go for weekly dinners with one of my closest friends husband. 90% of the time she isn't there. It doesn't mean I want him, it means he's also my friend now.
Ritchie Peony stop starting trouble again, you court contraversy, i havnt said anything to you in this thread. I was commenting on makeup. Try not to make this thread about yoh and me.
Michelle @malina if your friend has a careless disregard for the time you need to get over a break up then take a step back and look at your friendship. A friendship should have boundaries and respect. No matter how attractive any of my friends boyfriends were or are its not worth hurting my friendships. It makes me wonder how respectful or caring your friend really is to you. She obviously knows it's painful to you and the ex does too. The ex could be using her just to dig at you. My point is ask yourself if the way they both treat you is how you want to be treated? If it's not then you have your answer on letting these two go from your life. You deserve to be respected and loved by your friends so don't settle and keep people around that give you that. ;)
Malina what if u only broke up with your ex like a month ago and your best friend starts to hook up with him... what should i do then..
peony @ritchie v either you like the company of women or you are a little stirrer which is it????
peony If you are dining with a friend's boyfriend then it's a bad move. It means you want the man and if you don't and your intentions are honourable then his girlfriend has to be aware of or you two are planning her landmark birthday but you don't have to go to dinner alone for that so this means there is no reason for it!
Alyx I dated my best friends sister lol. Still with her and have been for years. It's made my bound much stronger. I feel more like her sister now rather than just a good friend :) if you really like someone, don't fight it just because it's a friend's sibling or whatever. If they are truly a your friend, they'll get over it and learn to love the new relationship, and how happy two people in their life are.
alka @Wendy are you living in 2015? Or the 1500s? Many men do wear makeup for example actors wear make up, I have also met guys who wear eyeliner and foundation to cover blemishes. And lots of gay men wear make up as well. Anyone can wear it. It wasnt made for a specific gender.
alka I would never ever ever ever ever do number 4. That is so wrong and disrespectful to your friend.
Kim Yes, don't share makeup, clothes are fine, but makeup has germs in it that are bad.
Ritchie What happens if you do all at the same time? Have you had it for eternity?
Joanne Another rule should be " don't date your friend's brother", as this might end up causing a conflict if things don't end well.
Faiii #4 is a NO. If you have or had respect for that friendship you will not even cross that boundary. Things DO happen though, and so does karma
Ritchie And n, I dont wear makeup.
Ritchie I can agree its possjbly unhygeinic. The mouth is one of yhe bidy parts with most bacteria, supprisingly enough.
Kayla My friends always get mad and make fun of me when i dont share my makeup bc i know its unsanitary
Ritchie Actually Goths do, the Band Breaking Benjamin do, and it fast becoming the norm, so get with the times.
Ritchie I must remember the last one about makeup lol
Wendy No, girls don't share cosmetics it's like trading germs. You can get ready together or do makeovers but to each their own cosmetics.
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