7 Encouragements to Keep in Mind for Girls Who Are Being Teased ...

7 Encouragements to Keep in Mind for Girls Who Are Being Teased ...
By Alison

Do people tease you a lot, and do you get upset? It's so annoying when people say 'oh, I'm only teasing you!', as if you've no right to be upset and should learn to take a joke! Teasing can actually be quite mean and thoughtless, and you don't have to put up with it. So if you get teased, remember these points …

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1. People Can Be Very Insensitive

Some people are very insensitive, and oblivious to the fact that they're annoying or upsetting you. They're just not thinking about your feelings and that their teasing might cause offence. So the fault is with them, not with you for being upset. You're entitled to your feelings, and nobody should decide for you how you should feel.

2. Bullies Will Pick on Anything

Teasing can actually be a form of bullying, if it's picking on something that they know you're sensitive about. That's exactly what bullies do; they pick on something that they know will upset you. It could be anything, so it's not your fault. They'll just find something to get at you about.

3. You've a Right to Be Annoyed

If people tell you that you should have a sense of humour, they're implying that you have no right to be upset at their teasing. You do. They know that they're upsetting you, so they're going on the defensive and trying to blame you for your reaction. That's not right. You are entitled to your feelings, and it's not for them to tell you how you should feel.

4. It's Not about You

Teasing isn't really about you. People who continue to tease you when you've made it clear you don't like it are showing how insensitive they are. It's not you that's at fault, but them. So put the responsibility firmly where it belongs, and don't let anyone tell you that you shouldn't be offended.

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5. Sometimes It's Best to Ignore People when They Tease You

Sometimes, people tease you because they're looking for a response. They want to upset you and get a reaction. If you don't respond, you're denying them what they want. So the best option can be to simply ignore them; they'll soon give up when they realise they're wasting their time.

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6. … and Sometimes You Should Make It Clear You Want Them to Stop

On the other hand, sometimes it's best to make it clear that you want them to stop. If they're simply insensitive, calling them out will bring it home to them that they're being an idiot. Tell them that you want them to stop. It may make them realise that they're doing something that bothers you.

7. Turn the Tables

You could even try turning the tables and teasing the person who teases you. They're bound to have something they're sensitive about, so give them a taste of their own medicine and see how they like it! Then if they're upset about being teased, you can point out that's exactly how you feel about what they said …

So if you get teased, try to judge which of these is the best option. At any rate, you have every right to want people to stop teasing you. Nobody should tell you how to react, so if you don't like it that's fair enough.

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It sucks! I feel like a black sheep!

Great post

I developed early. I started at the age of 10. Boys would tease me, but in High School they all wanted to date me. Their loss, I remember who teased me and snapped my bra.

I have deep emotional scars from being teased all the way through elementary school.

I'm definitely part of this group...my uncle is like this all the time, to the point where I want to say back something really sarcastic, but I usually think better of it.

My family teases me all the time! It's so annoying!

I don't think #7's the best advice. All the others makes sense

Just smiling and saying "Okay" is way more effective and pleasing than sinking to their level and teasing them back. This is what I always did to bullies and watching them squirm because they didn't know what to do was funny

I totaly agree some bulies just want atention so ignoring is the best snd some just dont realize how it feels until u turn the table and show them miror,

I think it's good to point these out as they may seem minor if a person simply gets used to being treated that way however knowing how wrong it is to be treated that way helps not to accept such behaviors.

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