'Kill them with kindness' doesn't always have to be seen in a negative way or as a form of manipulation, as many believe. Instead, it's up to us to use it in a positive way so that we can all incorporate it into our lives.
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1. You Become a Better Person
When we say and do nasty things to people, sometimes it can make us feel nasty about ourselves instead of leaving us feeling better. This is especially true if you're a good person who tries to avoid conflict and negative confrontation. But on the other hand, making an effort to be a genuinely good person makes us feel really great about ourselves. Treating other with kindness will do this for you and will leave you feeling happy and positive.
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Acting with compassion and grace not only enriches your character but also enhances your relationships. By choosing kindness, you're more likely to inspire the same behavior in others. It's a ripple effect that amplifies goodwill and discourages negativity. Imagine a world where every interaction is infused with understanding and respect. And remember, kindness is contagious; your actions could encourage someone else who might be having a tough day. So spread that joy and watch it brighten your world as well as the lives of those around you.
2. It Helps You Achieve
This reason comes from a genuine and good place as well. A good example of when to kill them with kindness is in a personal situation where things are not going well or it's turning negative, to the point that you're not comfortable with the way it currently is. And even when this happens it can be very hard for us to change it alone. So, you can kill them with kindness to help this happen for you. There will be a much higher chance things will change in a positive way from acting this way, rather than deciding to make demands.
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Utilizing kindness as a tool can create a ripple effect in your environment. It's transformative—when you approach a tense situation with a compassionate demeanor, you often disarm the negative energy. This approach allows for a space where negotiation and compromise can thrive over conflict. Remember, kindness speaks volumes about your character and can encourage others to reflect on their own behavior, potentially leading to more amicable interactions. Be the person who can subtly shift the current, steering the collective experience towards a more positive and productive outcome.
Frequently asked questions
Oh, great question! 'Killing them with kindness' means responding to negativity with such overwhelming kindness that it disarms the other person and stops their negative behavior. It's like, instead of fighting fire with fire, you're using water to cool things down. 😊
Well, for starters, it helps you keep your cool and stay the better person. It's way more satisfying in the long run! Plus, it can actually turn things around and make the other person rethink their behavior. Trust me, kindness can be so powerful!
Absolutely! Imagine someone at work is being super rude to you. Instead of snapping back, you stay calm and respond politely, maybe even compliment them or offer to help. It might throw them off a bit, but in a good way. They might even apologize or at least back off.
Oh, I hear you! It can be tough, no doubt about it. But think about it this way: it takes a lot less emotional energy to be kind than to hold onto anger or frustration. Plus, it can actually make you feel better about yourself and the situation. So, in a way, it's a win-win!
Great point! Sometimes, no matter how kind you are, people can still be jerks. In those cases, it's okay to set boundaries and protect yourself. You've done your part by being kind, and that's all you can control. Just remember, their behavior is a reflection of them, not you.
3. It Spreads Positivity
One of the best reasons is because it means you're bringing a whole lot of kindness into the world, which is always a positive thing! We should all spread positivity at every chance we get because it really does make the world a better place.
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When you choose to exude kindness, even in tough situations, you influence others to follow suit. It's like igniting a chain reaction of goodwill that can brighten someone's otherwise dreary day. Plus, embracing a positive attitude helps to build better relationships and fosters a culture of empathy and understanding. Whether it's complimenting someone's outfit or simply sharing a smile, these small acts of kindness can be incredibly powerful. They don't cost a thing, yet, they're priceless in the joy they can bring to you and those around you.
4. It's Gratefully Received
As we all know, not everyone in this world displays kindness and so often we're met with rudeness and negativity rather than kindness and love from others. So when we do come across someone who displays kindness to such an extent, it really does go noticed and it will be gratefully received by each person you decide to be kind to.
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Kindness often serves as a refreshing antidote to the pervasive negativity we can encounter daily. It can turn a mundane interaction into a memorable one, imbuing another's day with a sense of hope and warmth. Even a simple gesture, a smile or a heartfelt compliment, can serve as a catalyst for a brighter disposition. It's the unexpected acts of generosity of spirit that linger in minds long after they're bestowed, fostering a chain of goodwill that can ripple through an entire community. So, never underestimate the power of your kind-hearted actions – they're a beacon of light in an occasionally dim world.
5. You're Treating Other Well
Sometimes we don't think much of how we treat others, especially the ones we might treat in a bad way. But if you've ever been on the receiving end of this you'll know of the huge negative impact it can have and the repercussions. Have peace of mind that you're treating others well, knowing that everyone deserves to be treated with respect and kindness to an extent.
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Treating others with kindness and respect is not just about maintaining a positive outward image; it's a reflection of your inner values and self-respect. Remember, the ripples of our actions extend far beyond the initial splash. Treating someone well today could mean the start of a beautiful friendship or simply spreading a bit of much-needed joy. Besides, when you emit positive energy, it often finds its way back to you. It’s truly a cycle of goodwill that brightens everyone’s day, making your corner of the world a little warmer and more welcoming.
6. It Makes the World a Better Place
If you decide to treat someone with kindness and they receive this in a positive way, there is a much higher chance they will decide to pass this on to the next person (meaning they will show the same kindness to you in return and/or someone else). Believe it or not, we're constantly learning off each other because of our ability to influence each other.
At the end of the day, make the decision to kill them with kindness because it's something you genuinely believe in and want to do. Changing your behaviour in a really positive way like this is so beneficial to ourselves and other people, so what are you waiting for?!
Comments
Vikky: #2 I love this.
Tarsha: Great article but I must admit that I am so sick and tired of some of the women I work with that I have found myself being the opposite. I'm usually such a bubbly, vibrant person but I give in to the devil on my shoulder. I will correct it.
LittleDoll13: How about just kill them? No kindness no nothing
karen: 😕😕😕😕😕
peony: Hmmm how tiring!!!
LittleDoll13: Sorry, I'm just having a bad day lol
Soccergirl22: Great article!
Sharon: Always 😇
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