9 Modern Girl Code Rules You Haven't Heard before ...

Like Her Selfies • Help Her Home Safely • Don't Hate on Her Clothes • Give Her a Hand • Be Her Escape • More ...

By Holly • Jul 20, 2015 MD

Us women have to watch out for each other. If we all band together instead of treating each other like rivals, we're all going to have easier lives. That's why you should follow these modern girl code rules:

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1. Like Her Selfies

We live in a world filled with selfies. If your best friend posts a picture of herself on Tumblr, Facebook, or Instagram, then it's your duty to like it or leave a sweet comment on it. There's nothing worse than getting no attention on a picture you were proud of--especially if that picture is of your face. Don't let your friend become insecure. Like her selfie to give her a boost of confidence.

2. Help Her Home Safely

Girl code extends to strangers. If you notice a woman at a bar or at a concert who's stumbling around, you should look out for her. If she doesn't have any friends with her, then help her walk back to her house or hail a cab. Us girls need to stick together if we want to stay safe.

3. Don't Hate on Her Clothes

Slut shaming should be a thing of the past. A woman can dress in whatever way she pleases. If your friend likes to wear miniskirts and low-cut tops, you can let her know that it's inappropriate for a job interview, but you shouldn't make fun of her for wearing it in her everyday life.

4. Give Her a Hand

If a stranger in a restroom asks you for a tampon or pad, give her one. The same advice applies when another woman is in need of toilet paper, a hairband, or a painkiller. Those items are easily replaceable, so play the part of a hero and give them to women in need.

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5. Be Her Escape

You should create code words in order to help your friends out of jams. That way, when your BFF goes on a blind date, she can call or text you a certain word to let you know she needs your help. Then you can swoop in and get her out of that bad situation.

6. Watch out for Her

When you drop your friend off at her house, don't drive away until she's safely inside. You don't want to leave too early, because she might've forgotten her key, or a stranger could be hiding in the bushes to hurt her. Be patient and wait for her to open the door before you drive away.

7. Be Blunt with Her

If you see another girl with lipstick on her teeth or with a hole in her jeans, tell her. Sure, it's an awkward thing to say, but it can save her from further embarrassment. The sooner she knows about the mishap, the sooner she can fix it.

8. Never Flirt with Her BF

You should never, under any circumstances, flirt with a guy who already has a girlfriend. It doesn't matter if you're friends with the woman or if you've never met her in your life. Either way, you should be respectful by keeping your hands to yourself.

9. Don't Date Her Crush

You already know that it's dangerous to date a friend's ex. However, it's equally as bad to date a friend's crush. If you know that she's liked a guy for years, ask her if she'd be okay with you making a move before you actually do. That way, you'll stay on each other's good sides.

If women choose to should stick together instead of acting like enemies, the world will be a happier place. Do you follow all of these girl code rules?

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  • raqcity

    2015-07-22T04:21:21.275Z

    I like the idea of women supporting each other but the selfie thing is a little superficial I feel like girls these days are way too into their looks and care way too much about likes/followers and what not. They need to learn that self worth is so much more than knowing they look good. Instagram likes is just artificial confidence who cares how many likes your selfie gets?
  • SammyS

    2015-07-21T09:44:53.608Z

    Hmm I've been burnt as well my number 8! And she was supposed to be a 'Friend'. All she was doing was getting closer to me to try and get even closer to my Boyfriend. Of course, we aren't Friends anymore. Good riddance!
  • Mebo

    2015-07-21T10:51:12.703Z

    Loved this "us girls got to stick together" 🙌
  • Vanessa0502

    2015-07-22T16:01:01.497Z

    Number 9 happened to me and when I confronted my friend about it she got mad at me! She got mad at me because she should also be allowed to like that guy even though she knew I have liked him from several months ....that was after she dated my ex the week after we broke up without even asking me if it was ok....😕 She was my Bestfriend
  • happygirl213

    2015-07-23T04:53:11.566Z

    I love this omg! So true💕💕💕
  • Jennifer

    2015-07-21T20:36:43.341Z

    # 7 is very important.
  • Pearlfect08

    2015-07-21T07:21:13.261Z

    My so called friend broke girl code number 9 😔
  • Claudine

    2015-07-21T20:42:28.945Z

    #7 is part of my nature as a Sagittarius, but #9 has happened to me too many times by my BEST FRIENDS! Needless to say, we are no longer that. If I'm serious about crushing on someone and making a move on him, I keep it to my self. Eye candy I'm more than happy to share, but not a potential Love Interest.
  • Kim

    2015-07-21T21:19:20.610Z

    If selfies is all they do only like the original ones as there's other things you can do to show that you're their friend.
  • carolinehurry

    2015-07-21T04:59:53.162Z

    NUMBER 8
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