Girl Code could be best described as a set of rules and conditions that every girl should know and stick to. Most ladies think that you should never, under any circumstance, deviate from those rules because you will break the trust and solidarity of your friends and you will be condemned to a life of isolation. But, you should know that things are not always as they seem since there are also a few girl code rules that can be interpreted in many different ways. Here are a few girl code rules that shouldn’t always be followed:
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1. Never Reveal Another Girl’s Secret
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Well, even though it’s very important to be a trustworthy person and an honest friend, there can be times when it’s actually bad to keep a secret, even it that secret involves another girl. Here I am talking about the times when that secret could be endangering that girl’s safety or any other person’s safety for that matter.
2. Never Invite a Friend’s Enemy to a Party
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Even if it’s important to always be there for your friends and do everything in your power to avoid any potential conflicts between you, there are times when you should ask your friend to be a bit more understanding. Let’s say, for example, that you are throwing a party and your friend can’t stand a particular person. You’ll still have to invite their enemy to your party if that enemy happens to be your boss or another close friend of yours.
3. Never Dine Alone with a Friend’s Boyfriend
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Does this rule should still apply if your friend’s boyfriend is an old friend of yours, if you are like siblings and you grew up together? Let’s say that he was your friend first and you actually introduced him to your girlfriend because you knew that they would be perfect for each other. You can see that there can be exceptions to any rule and this is clearly one of them.
4. Never Date a Friend’s Ex
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Well, this can be a tricky one. It depends on how serious the relationship between your friend and your new crush really was, how long it has been since they used to date and what your friend thinks about you dating one of her exes. Just talk to them first and if they are okay with that, then just go for it, you never know where you can find true love.
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5. You Need to Change Your Hair to Feel Good about Yourself
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When something traumatic happens to a woman, like a breakup for example, she feels like she needs to make important changes in her life to feel good again. Among these changes, one of the most common is changing the hair color or the hairstyle. Well, you shouldn’t do that if you don’t want to do it because there are a lot of other simple yet efficient things you can do to improve your mood and none of them involves changing your physical appearance.
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6. If Your Friend is Interested in a Guy First, You Shouldn’t Try to Talk to Him
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I would like to start by saying that you should never, under any circumstance, try to steal your friend’s boyfriend because that is unacceptable among friends. But if they aren’t even together or if they haven’t even talked to each other, it would be unfair of your friend to forbid you to talk to them, especially if they know that you like them too.
7. You Should Always Share Makeup Products or Clothes with Your Friends
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I’m not saying that you shouldn’t share hair, makeup or clothing advice with your friends. On the contrary, you should always try to help them pick the best outfit. Just that, there are times when it’s not that okay to share makeup products or clothes. It’s not sanitary for a start, but what if you and your friend don’t wear the same size or if she spills something that it will ruin your favorite dress or shirt? I’m sure you wouldn’t be too pleased about that.
I’m not saying that you shouldn’t be there for your friends or for other girls for that matter; just try to be a good person and treat others with kindness and respect. Do you know any other girl code rules that shouldn’t always be followed? Please share your thoughts with us in the comments section!
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Wendy: Really men don't wear makeup leave that to women!
Ritchie: I meant even if
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Ritchie: Alyx, Even is Peony Blue annoys you just stay, you and me can chat :)
alka: I would never ever ever ever ever do number 4. That is so wrong and disrespectful to your friend.
Ritchie: And as for alka, i would rather sit on a porcupine
Kim: Yes, don't share makeup, clothes are fine, but makeup has germs in it that are bad.
Alyx: @peony you're getting very defensive for no reason. Your comment indictated that ANYONE who goes for dinner with someone's boyfriend wants them. That's not true in most cases. I did read your comment, did you read mine? If I'm friends with both people, I'm not going to stop being a friend to one just because they aren't in a relationship anymore, that's not very "loyal". If they are just having dinner, there's zero issues. If they're having dinner 6 days a week and having sleepovers, then maybe question it. But either way, unless you're an extremely jealous person and are insecure with your relationship, there's zero reason to be suspicious over dinner. That's like getting mad at your boyfriend for having friends who are female, or getting mad that he joked with the female batista. I feel like you're very much getting angry over something very small. Especially since you DID generalize, then you made unreasonable assumptions on your first post.
Alyx: Lol peony she said hooking up not going for dinner.. Last time I checked sex and dinner are not mutually exclusive. I'm not angry, but you definitely did generalize (even before malinas comment I might add) and this doesn't bother me. What bothers me is you all are being judgmental and going "youre not a true friend if____" but really, YOU'RE not a "true" friend if you are keeping your boyfriend away from them (aren't they supposed to be friends with someone who supposedly makes you happy?) or keeping them from dating an excellent/family member, which is keeping them away from their chance at love. That's more rude than someone going for dinner with someone who is also their friend. I did read your comment, which is why I replied to you, because it was very judgmental and a very controlling mindset. If your boyfriend and your friend can't control who they go for dinner with, then jeeze what else do you control in their lives? But either way, those werent "tangents" they were opinions and TRYING to get you to see it from another perspective. But nice try with the whole "it was for malinas comment" thing even though it was over an hour before she commented lol. Either way, you generalized, made a very manipulative comment about the way other people should act and then got mad and defensive at me for trying to show another perspective to you. Oh well. You won't learn about the world or other people's feelings if you just focus on one mindset and one view on everything without consideration of people or other people's feelings/views. I'm done trying to help you see it differently since you just go into defensive mode though. Have a nice day.
Ritchie: And n, I dont wear makeup.
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