There are ways you can be more feminine and there are many benefits of taking this advice to heart. This advice is absolutely magical and I would love to tell you why. Men are attracted to a woman with very feminine traits. It is that special something about you that draws men to you and keeps them very, very interested. Let me tell you some of the best ways you can be more feminine to keep the fellas charmed.
1. Speak Softly
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One of the best ways you can be more feminine is to speak softly. Being feminine is all about being the opposite of masculine. Some men love girls who are very girly and this is one way you can do that. Speaking softly is a huge contrast to his strong voice and he will love hearing it. It takes time to practice doing this all the time but eventually it will become routine.
Being more feminine means embracing qualities that are traditionally associated with women, like being gentle, nurturing, and thoughtful. It's really about feeling comfortable in your own skin and enjoying your unique traits.
To talk in a more feminine way, try speaking softer and slower. Use a warm tone and don't rush your words. You can practice this by reading aloud or chatting with friends in a calm environment. It's all about finding your own sweet spot.
Not at all! Being feminine is not just about appearance. It's about how you carry yourself, how you speak, and how you treat others. You can dress how you like and still be feminine by embracing other qualities like compassion and kindness.
Definitely! Being more feminine can help you connect with others, improve relationships, and boost your confidence. It's all about balancing your energy and expressing yourself authentically.
Yes, absolutely! Everyone has a mix of masculine and feminine traits. For guys, being feminine might mean being more expressive, sensitive, or intuitive. It's about being true to yourself and embracing all parts of who you are.
2. Choose to Wear Your Hair Long
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Men love long hair - period. If you are in doubt, do a little poll of your own and ask the men you know if they prefer a woman with long hair or short hair. I think you will be surprised to learn that almost all men love long hair. And we women tend to think we can only do long hair until a certain age, but that is simply not true. As you age, you can go a little shorter, but long hair is not out of the question for you at any age and it will easily draw men to you.
Being more feminine means embracing qualities that are traditionally associated with women, like being gentle, nurturing, and thoughtful. It's really about feeling comfortable in your own skin and enjoying your unique traits.
To talk in a more feminine way, try speaking softer and slower. Use a warm tone and don't rush your words. You can practice this by reading aloud or chatting with friends in a calm environment. It's all about finding your own sweet spot.
Not at all! Being feminine is not just about appearance. It's about how you carry yourself, how you speak, and how you treat others. You can dress how you like and still be feminine by embracing other qualities like compassion and kindness.
Definitely! Being more feminine can help you connect with others, improve relationships, and boost your confidence. It's all about balancing your energy and expressing yourself authentically.
Yes, absolutely! Everyone has a mix of masculine and feminine traits. For guys, being feminine might mean being more expressive, sensitive, or intuitive. It's about being true to yourself and embracing all parts of who you are.
3. Wear Skirts and Dresses
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Nothing reminds a man that you are a girl like seeing you in a skirt or dress. This is something uniquely feminine and most men love to see women in a dress. You don’t want to get rid of your jeans, but when you are at a loss for what to wear, try a dress. Form your own observations on this one. Choose to wear a skirt or dress on your next date and watch to see what his reaction is.
Being more feminine means embracing qualities that are traditionally associated with women, like being gentle, nurturing, and thoughtful. It's really about feeling comfortable in your own skin and enjoying your unique traits.
To talk in a more feminine way, try speaking softer and slower. Use a warm tone and don't rush your words. You can practice this by reading aloud or chatting with friends in a calm environment. It's all about finding your own sweet spot.
Not at all! Being feminine is not just about appearance. It's about how you carry yourself, how you speak, and how you treat others. You can dress how you like and still be feminine by embracing other qualities like compassion and kindness.
Definitely! Being more feminine can help you connect with others, improve relationships, and boost your confidence. It's all about balancing your energy and expressing yourself authentically.
Yes, absolutely! Everyone has a mix of masculine and feminine traits. For guys, being feminine might mean being more expressive, sensitive, or intuitive. It's about being true to yourself and embracing all parts of who you are.
4. Wear Heels
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Heels are a great way to show off your femininity. This is another very uniquely feminine item in your wardrobe. Heels not only are very feminine but rather enchanting as well. They make your legs look lovely and give you a wonderful slant to your normal walk. Wear heels for a few days and take notice of the attention that you are really gathering.
Being more feminine means embracing qualities that are traditionally associated with women, like being gentle, nurturing, and thoughtful. It's really about feeling comfortable in your own skin and enjoying your unique traits.
To talk in a more feminine way, try speaking softer and slower. Use a warm tone and don't rush your words. You can practice this by reading aloud or chatting with friends in a calm environment. It's all about finding your own sweet spot.
Not at all! Being feminine is not just about appearance. It's about how you carry yourself, how you speak, and how you treat others. You can dress how you like and still be feminine by embracing other qualities like compassion and kindness.
Definitely! Being more feminine can help you connect with others, improve relationships, and boost your confidence. It's all about balancing your energy and expressing yourself authentically.
Yes, absolutely! Everyone has a mix of masculine and feminine traits. For guys, being feminine might mean being more expressive, sensitive, or intuitive. It's about being true to yourself and embracing all parts of who you are.
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5. Embrace Your Inner Girl
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The best way to be feminine is to just be yourself. You know exactly how to do this if you listen to your inner thoughts. Enjoy being a girl. Enjoy wearing makeup and lovely jewelry and wearing many different hairstyles. When you enjoy being feminine, it will shine through in a very obvious way.
Being more feminine means embracing qualities that are traditionally associated with women, like being gentle, nurturing, and thoughtful. It's really about feeling comfortable in your own skin and enjoying your unique traits.
To talk in a more feminine way, try speaking softer and slower. Use a warm tone and don't rush your words. You can practice this by reading aloud or chatting with friends in a calm environment. It's all about finding your own sweet spot.
Not at all! Being feminine is not just about appearance. It's about how you carry yourself, how you speak, and how you treat others. You can dress how you like and still be feminine by embracing other qualities like compassion and kindness.
Definitely! Being more feminine can help you connect with others, improve relationships, and boost your confidence. It's all about balancing your energy and expressing yourself authentically.
Yes, absolutely! Everyone has a mix of masculine and feminine traits. For guys, being feminine might mean being more expressive, sensitive, or intuitive. It's about being true to yourself and embracing all parts of who you are.
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6. Let Him Take Care of You
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Men enjoy taking care of the woman in their life. Of course, we all know that we have the ability to take care of ourselves, but men enjoy doing it and we enjoy it, too. Allow him to open doors for you and pick up the check when you go out on a date. If you are already married, be sure to call him when you are in need of help. Let him be your hero and he will love you forever.
Being more feminine means embracing qualities that are traditionally associated with women, like being gentle, nurturing, and thoughtful. It's really about feeling comfortable in your own skin and enjoying your unique traits.
To talk in a more feminine way, try speaking softer and slower. Use a warm tone and don't rush your words. You can practice this by reading aloud or chatting with friends in a calm environment. It's all about finding your own sweet spot.
Not at all! Being feminine is not just about appearance. It's about how you carry yourself, how you speak, and how you treat others. You can dress how you like and still be feminine by embracing other qualities like compassion and kindness.
Definitely! Being more feminine can help you connect with others, improve relationships, and boost your confidence. It's all about balancing your energy and expressing yourself authentically.
Yes, absolutely! Everyone has a mix of masculine and feminine traits. For guys, being feminine might mean being more expressive, sensitive, or intuitive. It's about being true to yourself and embracing all parts of who you are.
7. Wear Lotion
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This sounds so simple and like it really doesn’t have a lot to do with being feminine at all but it does. Wearing lotion will make your skin very soft which is a very feminine trait. Everyone that touches your hand or your arm is certain to notice. Soft skin is something men notice very quickly when they are in a relationship with a woman and they appreciate it. It is so much the better if the lotion is scented.
Playing up your femininity is a way to make some magic happen in your life and especially in your relationships. This is a subject I have just recently started studying and learning about so I would love to hear how you play up your femininity. Would you share your secrets and ways you can be more feminine with me?
Comments
Sara: My husband met me when I had the shortest hair I\'ve ever had in my life & even though I didn\'t like it, he told me that was one of the first things he found attractive about me. I personally don\'t agree with all these points...one says learn to speak more softly, another says to be yourself?! Which is it? Wearing dresses, heels & makeup is fun once in s while, but I\'d rather be liked for who I am instead of trying to be someone I\'m not!
Alicia: Hello, all, it is me, Alicia & author of said article. It is interesting to hear so many comments and I welcome them all! I do want to clarify that I am very thankful for the rights I have as a woman! I know I am intelligent, educated and can be very independent when I need to be. I think those are all wonderful things for a woman to be and I in no way wish to \'set us back\' in any way. :). And by the way, my hair is rather short right now too- cut in a sassy chin length bob. BUT, I LOVE being feminine...,and in researching this out, most men enjoy a woman who is. This article was intended to show how you can enjoy being feminine if you wished to know more about that subject. I have researched this out enough that I feel confident I am speaking for a majority of men\'s opinions.... But it is certainly not conclusive. :). That us what makes us all unique! I also have a love affair with women\'s clothing of the 40s and 50s & have often said I was born in the wrong era! This article was intended for fun and to share what Interesting information I have learned. I hope this sets my readers mind at ease in my thoughts and intentions! I am thankful for each of you.
Scott: I agree 110% with all but #6. We enjoy being treated as well. We don\'t expect and will NEVER ask for it as it would be emasculating due to our male egos. So don\'t be afraid to surprise your man with a night out. Ideally something you both enjoy. Maybe tix to a comedy show or a game. He will appreciate it
Morgan: So, in a nutshell follow these tips so men will notice and like me? You say \"The best way to be feminine is to just be myself\", but in the next sentence tell em to wear makeup. What is wearing makeup is not \"myself\"? Is \"myself\" not feminine or does femininity not include me? I was born feminine without makeup, jewelry, dresses, or any clothing for that matter.
Alletta: Agreed! Doing it like a lady! And like Scott points out: care and be cared for
Karla: The heels and long straight hair gets me alot of i attention
katiekat: Ok I agree and I apologize yes we all gave the right to an opinion no need for vile language. How do you delete comments?
katiekat: I would greatly appreciate if you could delete the longer paragraph bc I was very rash and rude to critique someone\'s opinion thank you so much and sorry for bothering you all haha
Shanerra: Good article! Too many girls aren\'t feminine.
Lillica: Be more docile and attract a man! Wow, way to set us back, Alicia.
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