There are ways you can be more feminine and there are many benefits of taking this advice to heart. This advice is absolutely magical and I would love to tell you why. Men are attracted to a woman with very feminine traits. It is that special something about you that draws men to you and keeps them very, very interested. Let me tell you some of the best ways you can be more feminine to keep the fellas charmed.
1 Speak Softly
One of the best ways you can be more feminine is to speak softly. Being feminine is all about being the opposite of masculine. Some men love girls who are very girly and this is one way you can do that. Speaking softly is a huge contrast to his strong voice and he will love hearing it. It takes time to practice doing this all the time but eventually it will become routine.
2 Choose to Wear Your Hair Long
Men love long hair - period. If you are in doubt, do a little poll of your own and ask the men you know if they prefer a woman with long hair or short hair. I think you will be surprised to learn that almost all men love long hair. And we women tend to think we can only do long hair until a certain age, but that is simply not true. As you age, you can go a little shorter, but long hair is not out of the question for you at any age and it will easily draw men to you.
Nothing reminds a man that you are a girl like seeing you in a skirt or dress. This is something uniquely feminine and most men love to see women in a dress. You don’t want to get rid of your jeans, but when you are at a loss for what to wear, try a dress. Form your own observations on this one. Choose to wear a skirt or dress on your next date and watch to see what his reaction is.
4 Wear Heels
Heels are a great way to show off your femininity. This is another very uniquely feminine item in your wardrobe. Heels not only are very feminine but rather enchanting as well. They make your legs look lovely and give you a wonderful slant to your normal walk. Wear heels for a few days and take notice of the attention that you are really gathering.
5 Embrace Your Inner Girl
The best way to be feminine is to just be yourself. You know exactly how to do this if you listen to your inner thoughts. Enjoy being a girl. Enjoy wearing makeup and lovely jewelry and wearing many different hairstyles. When you enjoy being feminine, it will shine through in a very obvious way.
6 Let Him Take Care of You
Men enjoy taking care of the woman in their life. Of course, we all know that we have the ability to take care of ourselves, but men enjoy doing it and we enjoy it, too. Allow him to open doors for you and pick up the check when you go out on a date. If you are already married, be sure to call him when you are in need of help. Let him be your hero and he will love you forever.
7 Wear Lotion
This sounds so simple and like it really doesn’t have a lot to do with being feminine at all but it does. Wearing lotion will make your skin very soft which is a very feminine trait. Everyone that touches your hand or your arm is certain to notice. Soft skin is something men notice very quickly when they are in a relationship with a woman and they appreciate it. It is so much the better if the lotion is scented.
Playing up your femininity is a way to make some magic happen in your life and especially in your relationships. This is a subject I have just recently started studying and learning about so I would love to hear how you play up your femininity. Would you share your secrets and ways you can be more feminine with me?
girly1 We should be feminine because we are weaker. We should wear dresses, heels, make up, etc. to look good for him.
Leone I think there\'s no point in trying to be feminine, just be yourself girls! It\'s boring when all girls act girly. Everyone is different and cool in their own way. I\'m not the least girliest of my friends but my man loves me the way I am and people like me just because I\'m me!
Some1 Being feminine is a very beautiful thing...it z all how YOU handle it. Article is good enough, tips & thoughts for those who prefer being \"feminine\"...not imposing something upon your freedom.
Alicia Hello, all, it is me, Alicia & author of said article. It is interesting to hear so many comments and I welcome them all! I do want to clarify that I am very thankful for the rights I have as a woman! I know I am intelligent, educated and can be very independent when I need to be. I think those are all wonderful things for a woman to be and I in no way wish to \'set us back\' in any way. :). And by the way, my hair is rather short right now too- cut in a sassy chin length bob. BUT, I LOVE being feminine...,and in researching this out, most men enjoy a woman who is. This article was intended to show how you can enjoy being feminine if you wished to know more about that subject. I have researched this out enough that I feel confident I am speaking for a majority of men\'s opinions.... But it is certainly not conclusive. :). That us what makes us all unique! I also have a love affair with women\'s clothing of the 40s and 50s & have often said I was born in the wrong era! This article was intended for fun and to share what Interesting information I have learned. I hope this sets my readers mind at ease in my thoughts and intentions! I am thankful for each of you.
Laulau Can you write one for men? I\'d like to see your thoughts before giving my opinion. Maybe mad men has got to us a little too much! 😇That last bit was in jest.
Brenda The whole purpose of the post (I think) is to teach you how to embrace your femininity a little bit. Be you 100% of the time and if that doesn\'t include makeup, so be it. If you don\'t like heels, don\'t wear them. If you prefer your hair short, then cut it!! It\'s not saying that\'s what men want. But if none if this applies to you, then don\'t worry about it! People should love you for who you are not what they want you to be :)
Ashley Aren\'t all women beautiful? I feel like this is telling you how you should look or else men won\'t like you. I don\'t like this article very much and I\'m kind of offended because I do have short hair.
Ally I think the most important thing to understanding this article is its title. It\'s about being \"Feminine\" when you want to be. Not changing who you are or telling you what to be self conscious about when you\'re not. I myself am far from feminine, I rarely wear makeup, I dress in athletic clothes, and work hard in the yard. And that\'s me. But if I want a day to be \"feminine,\" these are great tips.
katiekat I would greatly appreciate if you could delete the longer paragraph bc I was very rash and rude to critique someone\'s opinion thank you so much and sorry for bothering you all haha
Neecey @katiekat, Of course - will do. And it's no bother. And seriously, I don't want to discourage you leaving your opinion - just be constructive. We wouldn't be the site we are if people like you didn't feel they could comment and it's healthy to have opposing ideas.
katiekat Ok I agree and I apologize yes we all gave the right to an opinion no need for vile language. How do you delete comments?
Neecey @katiekat, I will delete your comment if you want me to - however, I think that as you have been gracious in your apology there's reason for it to stay. Other readers just ignore us when we tell them they are out of order (for want of a better expression). totally up to you - I'll do whatever you request.
Vennary What should I do when I\'m raise with 4 brothers and no sisters!!! ??? I\'m such a Tomboy! Can I burp or fart in front of my bf? I haven\'t done it yet lol. But willing to try 😜
Denise @Vennary I don't think you should make burping or farting in front of your boyfriend a big deal. I mean, you don't have to go out of your way to burp or fart in his presence. But when it happens, it happens, you know? :)
Karla The heels and long straight hair gets me alot of i attention😊
katiekat You could\'ve said men like well groomed hair and \"in\" hairstyles. And instead of makeup you could\'ve said men like when you take care of your body and are clean, etc. if yiu are going to be controversial at least mention multiple times that this doesn\'t apply to all men thank you
Morgan \"what if\" not \"what is\"
Lillica Be more docile and attract a man! Wow, way to set us back, Alicia.
Morgan So, in a nutshell follow these tips so men will notice and like me? You say \"The best way to be feminine is to just be myself\", but in the next sentence tell em to wear makeup. What is wearing makeup is not \"myself\"? Is \"myself\" not feminine or does femininity not include me? I was born feminine without makeup, jewelry, dresses, or any clothing for that matter.
Alletta Agreed! Doing it like a lady! And like Scott points out: care and be cared for
Rachel Yeah let me just give back my right to vote while Im perpetuating this 1950s requirements
Yajhaira I think painting nails is also a good way to show femininity 💅💕
Maria One thing that I really love about being a woman is that we have so many possibilities to change from one day to another just by changing our clothes, make up, hair or jewellery. I just love being a woman. 😃
Shanerra Good article! Too many girls aren\'t feminine.
Meghan I\'m not really a fan of this
Brandy I got this! Love heels ,make up,dresses and smell good lotions!Nothing beats feeling like a confident sexy women!
Amelie I seriously find those backward
Maya So much work lol.
Sara My husband met me when I had the shortest hair I\'ve ever had in my life & even though I didn\'t like it, he told me that was one of the first things he found attractive about me. I personally don\'t agree with all these points...one says learn to speak more softly, another says to be yourself?! Which is it? Wearing dresses, heels & makeup is fun once in s while, but I\'d rather be liked for who I am instead of trying to be someone I\'m not!
Amie I agree with these. As a feminist, I think there is definitely room to show your femininity. In point of fact, there are many women who are naturally this way, and there is nothing wrong with that.
Scott I agree 110% with all but #6. We enjoy being treated as well. We don\'t expect and will NEVER ask for it as it would be emasculating due to our male egos. So don\'t be afraid to surprise your man with a night out. Ideally something you both enjoy. Maybe tix to a comedy show or a game. He will appreciate it
Neecey @Scott, Oh absolutely. Everything should be a two way street!
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