8 Things Not to Worry about in Your Twenties ...

8 Things Not to Worry about in Your Twenties ...
By Alison • Mar 5, 2013

There are so many things not to worry about when you're young. Your twenties should be a time to start discovering yourself and having fun, yet a lot of people spend them fretting about love, work and other issues. Some things just aren't worth the worry, especially when you're young! Here are some things not to worry about in your twenties …

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1. What Other People Think

One of the main things not to worry about is what other people think of you. Often in our twenties we haven't yet developed the self-confidence that comes with growing older. So we let the opinions of parents and peers influence our decisions. Follow your own path and be your own person instead.

2. Starting a Family

It's one of life's great ironies that biologically, the younger we start our family the better. Yet we're often not stable enough financially or emotionally in our twenties. By all means have your kids young if it's right for you, but don't do so because you're worried about declining fertility and all the dire warnings in the media.

3. Buying a House

Do you worry that you'll never get on the property ladder? Buying a home is something that you should never rush into. Don't buy because you are afraid that prices will rise and shut you out of the market. It may be better to concentrate on saving for a deposit and other costs, then buying when the time is right.

4. Making Mistakes

When you get older, you don't worry so much about making mistakes. However, when you're younger this can be a real anxiety. So you've got things wrong a few times. It happens, and it's how we learn. So don't spend your youth worrying about your mistakes.

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5. Getting a Man

There's still a lot of pressure to be part of a couple. But there's no hurry! Date someone if you really like them, but don't worry that you're going to be single forever. If you're only in your twenties, there is plenty of time to meet someone. Concentrate on having fun instead.

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6. Getting Old

Even people in their twenties can worry that their life is slipping away. But you have the majority of your life ahead of you! Yes, we all have to get old, but as they say, it's better than the alternative. Besides, life can still be very enjoyable as you mature, perhaps even more so than when you were young. So don't waste time worrying about getting old.

7. Lack of Achievements

So often we compare ourselves unfavourably to others. That's a really negative thing to do to ourselves. Why criticise yourself because you feel that others have achieved more than you? We can't all be the top in our field, and you have probably done a lot more than you realise. Plus there is plenty of time to achieve more.

8. The World

When you're young, you can often become very anxious and depressed about the state of the world. Be realistic - we can't solve everything by ourselves. Try focusing instead on what you can do on a small scale. Even helping one person is making a difference to their life.

So, twenty-something readers, let go of any worries you may have. Concentrate on enjoying your twenties, and don't fear the future. There is so much to look forward to! Life can be great in your thirties, forties and beyond. What is or was your worst worry in your twenties?

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This is definitely not a one-size fits all article. I don't necessarily agree with a majority of what's said, but I get why the writer thinks this way.

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Turning 25 this year and I can definitely say this has been me since I can remember even before I was 20. Yes Kelly you are right, it's the path we choose for ourselves and what makes us happy. I thought I would never settle down, I thought my first home would be my own and I would never want kids with the life I had set for myself. When I turned 20 I met a guy who changed my life, by the time I was 23 we bought a home together and now at 25 I have a great job, a home and a man Id love to have kids with soon in the future when I plant my dream job. We have been luck to juggle everything at once and we have spent the best times traveling and enjoying our 20s together. If you put your mind set on a goal even if the unexpected happens just remember to never lose focus and you can conquer what you wish. I now want a bigger home, finish my CPA exam and start my dream job before starting our family and I do feel 10 years older. That may be my only weakness. I can't stop thinking of the next move.

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I'm turning 28 this year and have to say that my 20s have been a bit crazy at times but great! I've had my fun with friends, done a bit of traveling and tried pursuing a job I studied for. Since meeting my fiancé last year, my eyes opened up to see how cruel the world can be, but it has helped us realise that now is the time to save for a house, a family and dream wedding. Since my early twenties, I am a lot less bothered about what people think as your life doesn't concern them.. And all that competition at uni was for nothing, as I and many others have gone down a different path since!

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I believe what is being said in this article is that don't stress too much over the things you can't control, live in the moment, create your own happiness and believe in yourself. It's not directly saying don't care or worry until your 30, it's telling people my age that it's okay not to have all the answers, just live and learn.

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I'm 25, I have two boys and I've been with my husband since 13. Suddenly I feel like owning a home is a must this year. So glad you wrote this article, I really did feel like I was getting old lol.

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