There are many signs of insecurity to look out for. Insecurity is defined as lack of confidence or assurance; it also points to feelings of self doubt. We've all felt insecure at times in our lives, that's normal. But if you find that you or someone close to you dwells in insecurity, that's probably not normal. The following signs of insecurity are a good starting point to help you assess if it's time to take a good look in the mirror.
1. Control Freak
One of the first signs of insecurity is the need to be a control freak. The need to control can definitely stem from fear, and fear often goes hand in hand with insecurity. Does your boyfriend like to control what you wear? Do you have to be in control of what you and your friends do? Pay attention to controlling behavior and consider the root. No one wants to be controlled.