7 Sexist Ways Women Treat Men That We Cant Ignore ...

By Alison • Jan 21, 2014

Have you ever considered that the ways women treat men can also be sexist? We complain quite rightly if men treat us in a sexist fashion, but if we look at our own behavior we are often not guiltless ourselves. Here are some of the ways women treat men that we should be aware of …

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1. Female Careers

One of the sexist ways women treat men is when it comes to careers. We complain that certain careers are male dominated, and yet regard others as something only women should do. If a man wants to be a nurse or look after children, for example, he is seen as less masculine and should do something more suitable for a man.

2. Helpless

Women can also see men as essentially overgrown children who are incapable of looking after themselves. They can't cook, clean, mend their clothes, buy socks, or pick up the right groceries. But is this really true? Certainly some men aren't good at these tasks, but we shouldn't assume that no man is capable of doing these basic things.

3. Stereotypes

Be honest - have you ever muttered "they're all the same" when referring to men? Because all men can fix the car, want to play the field, and like to get drunk at weekends, right? Well, no. Some only want a committed relationship, hardly drink at all, and have no idea about what goes on under the hood of a car. We don't want men to stereotype us, and we shouldn't do the same to them.

4. Can't Look after Kids

And how often do women assume that a man has no idea how to look after kids? Even mothers may be reluctant to leave a father in charge of his own baby. Many men are actually great with kids, including those that don't have kids of their own. And it's not because they're really only big kids themselves.

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5. Household Jobs

The popular image is that women get burdened with more of the household chores, even though they work full time. This may or may not be true. But how often do we treat men as if they can't do certain household tasks? Don't we also push them into doing strenuous jobs and leave the lighter tasks for ourselves? Girls, we have to do our share of mowing the lawn and moving furniture.

6. Advertising

Advertising also treats men in a sexist fashion - it's not just women that experience this. Men are shown as helpless creatures and often ridiculed. They make a mess of the house and need a woman to rescue them. It's fair to assume that women are behind some of these commercials …

7. Presumptions

We think we know men and what they want from life. This isn't really fair, and is another example of how we put men into the same category. Men are just as complicated as women are. Don't assume anything about a man based simply on his gender.

We are doing men and ourselves a disservice if we assume that they never experience sexism. I haven't even mentioned examples like men in the media and law. Is it right, for example, that men are named when falsely accused of rape, yet the woman remains anonymous? How do you think we are sexist towards men?

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  • Tabitha

    2014-01-22T01:23:17.000Z

    We are forgetting the victim shaming that takes place
  • Beth

    2014-01-22T18:10:41.000Z

    I could never assume that men do all the DIY and are hopeless around the house, My boyfriend cleans without being asked to and does washing all the time.... And im the one that fixes radiators and broken cuboards haha
  • Ashleigh

    2014-01-22T03:04:09.000Z

    What this article fails to highlight is that sexism is maintained through various institutions that legitimize discrimination and oppression. Which with the exception of the first example of careers, none of the examples given by the author fit this criteria. Even saying that women are sexist towards men with their career choices is a weak argument when one realizes that most of the jobs deemed "women's work" were created as such because of the lack of careers for women during the second and first waves of feminism. So if men are excluded from occupations it's often because of the patriarchal system, and not the fault of women.
  • foobar12

    2015-06-10T22:44:37.049Z

    Add number 8: "insensitivity". Article talks about some sexist ways, and many people only talk about feminism and/or who has it worse, women or men. Good job ladies!
  • Lauren

    2014-01-22T00:31:37.000Z

    Sexism easily goes both ways....everyone needs to stop trying to be victims.
  • summer

    2014-01-22T00:02:57.000Z

    I agree, some women can be sexist! I think another thing that isn't spoken about enough is the percentage of men that are abused in relationships. Obviously, and of course not all women are, but some women are abusive too! The percentage rate of physical verbal abuse from men in domestic violent relationships is the same as a woman's percentage rate. :-/
  • Inna

    2016-02-19T13:06:57.797Z

    I really like this article — there aren't enough articles about sexism against men. And I'm a girl so I'm not just saying that.
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