If you're thinking of going clubbing for the first time, it really pays to be prepared before you go out and organise as much as you can!
Follow these quick but important tips for your night out and remember to think things through to ensure you're making good decisions.
However if you with a couple of close friends or even a whole group of people, you'll be able to stick together and help each other out if anything should happen while you're out.
Often it's better to go with friends because you can share the fun experience with other people and all have a night to remember!
However, even though you may think you look older than you actually are, remember that others (like bouncers and bartenders) may still be sceptical and ask for your ID just to be on the safe side.
Trying to do things when you're tipsy or drunk can be a lot harder than every other day when you're totally sober - even little things such as opening doors or finding your keys can seem like a mission at the time!
If you're going out on the street after you've had a few, make sure you remember to be super street smart and it may even pay to take a friend with you, just to be safe.
Keep your phone charged and within easy reach. Should you find yourself in a pickle or just need to order a cab, having a powered-up phone is vital. Also, trust your instincts - if a situation or person doesn't feel right, listen to that inner voice and remove yourself from the scenario. And remember, there's no shame in turning down that last drink; keeping your wits about you is more than just a good idea, it's essential for maintaining control and enjoying your night to the fullest.
You're also right to be hesitant about accepting drinks from strangers or even a male friend you know, even if they haven't messed with your drink beforehand. It's just not worth taking a risk to find out.
Always watch your drinks! This can't be stressed and emphasized enough for young women going clubbing—not just for the first time but every single time! If possible, insist on buying your own drinks yourself or get a female friend to buy them for you. You're also right to be hesitant about accepting drinks from strangers or even a male friend you know, even if they haven't messed with your drink beforehand. It's just not worth taking a risk to find out. Stay alert and prioritize your safety because your well-being is far more important than any drink.
One thing you can do which will let you fully take control is to have a drinking limit (2 drinks, 3 drinks?) and stick to what is supposed to be your last for the night.
Also have a general time that you will plan to leave by to ensure you get enough sleep and have time to let your body rest after all that dancing, drinking and partying! Having lots of fun in a club is a really easy way to lose track of time and you'll have been out for the entire night before you know it.
Remember that your judgement won't be nearly as good or accurate as it normally is, so do yourself a massive favour by organising transport home before you even get to the club.
This will also save you from being in a sticky situation where you have no way of getting home and may be tempted to accept a ride from a stranger...which you should never do!
