Diaries – they're more than just blank pages bound together in a cute little book. They’re an outlet for our innermost thoughts, a sacred space where we can be our most authentic selves. Every girl, at some point, has looked at her diary and wondered what she should write. I mean, what secrets or obscure thoughts are worthy of these precious pages? In this glorious year of 2024, with so much happening in the world and in our lives, keeping a diary is not just a quaint hobby from yesteryear; it’s a profound way to document our journeys. Trust me, speaking from personal experience, my journal is a treasure trove of unforgettable moments and hilarious misadventures.
So, what's diary-worthy? For starters, writing about your goals and dreams can be incredibly inspiring. There’s nothing quite like putting pen to paper to outline what you hope to achieve. Whether it’s acing your college exams, finally mastering the art of sourdough baking, or traveling the globe without losing your luggage (yeah, good luck with that one), diaries are perfect for documenting goals and dreams. And hey, who knows? A few years down the line, you might find your old entries and laugh at how easy some of those goals seemed.
Another gem to include is daily reflections and gratitude. It’s super therapeutic to jot down things you’re grateful for – like that barista whose name you can never remember, who always gets your coffee just right. Or the fact that you survived another chaotic family dinner without losing your mind. These reflections can provide a much-needed mood boost on those gloomy days when it seems like the universe is conspiring against you.
Of course, documenting your relationships, whether they’re romantic, platonic, or somewhere in between, can be both amusing and enlightening. Many an evening have I spent huddled in my room, laughing or cringing at my past crushes and friendships. Writing about your relationships helps you see patterns and maybe, just maybe, avoid some heartache in the future.
Don’t forget to cherish your memories and adventures too. Remember that spontaneous road trip with friends or the time you decided to dance in the rain? These moments are your personal highlight reel. Jotting them down will not only preserve them but also remind you of the joy of living in the moment.
And let’s be real, who hasn’t had an epic rant session in their diary? Venting about your annoying boss or that mysterious puddle that ruined your shoes can be a lifesaver. Diaries don’t judge. They let you pour your heart out without interruption.
Lastly, as a lover of lists, I cannot stress enough the joy of making lists. Bucket lists, to-do lists, lists of weird dreams – you name it. Diaries are the ultimate place for organizing thoughts and plotting world domination (or just your next grocery trip).
So, there you have it – a friendly nudge to make your diary the ultimate companion in documenting the wild, wonderful ride that is life.
I believe that there is a quote for every period of our life. Whatever inspirational quote you bump into that you like or feels appropriate just write it down. These quotes will help you during hard times and boost your mood every time you open up the pages of your diary. Books, songs, movies and blogs are a good source of quotes.
From time to time, try this useful exercise. You can write whatever you want: from current achievements to future goals and wishes to yourself. Finding them and reading them in a couple of years will be a pleasant and interesting surprise.
Make a list of your future goals and always bring it with you wherever you go. It will help you stay focused but also encourage you every time you are thinking of quitting or giving up. Every time you cross off something from your list you will feel wonderfully productive and proud of yourself.
Health and food are an important part of our life so it is important to have a fitness and eating schedule even though we might be incredibly busy. Being caught up at work or at uni is indeed no good excuse to not take care of your body. Having your plans and schedules down on paper will help you stay motivated and it will be easier to follow a healthy lifestyle.
Seriously, don’t forget to put those important appointments in your diary. We’re always putting the fun stuff in and forgetting to schedule doctor’s appointments or trips to the dentist, but if you just put a reminder or a sticker in every time you think you need another boring appointment, you’ll be on top of them.
Ask your friends to leave a message in your diary, it might seem silly but they’ll be more than willing to leave sweet (or rude) messages for you to find. It will be helpful to find them there whenever you need them. Sometimes a few words can change our day and turn a bad day into a good one.
When you get a new diary, spend a few minutes filling in useful numbers and dates, even if you have to use Facebook to remember everybody’s birthdays, having them down on paper is invaluable Do not just rely on technology and your smartphones: sometimes the good old way can be the best and most efficient one! If for example your phone runs out of battery and you really need to reach someone, you can still go to a payphone or ask someone for their phone, as long as you have the contact’s number written somewhere!
Just like quotes, pictures from the past of family and friends will help you go through the toughest periods of your life. Images have a strong evocative power so use it at your advantage. Having pics in your diary will also help you make it more personal and looking back at those pictures in a couple of years will definitely make you smile…or shed a tear! Stick an envelope in the back of your diary or get crafty and stick them in old pages. You won’t regret it.