The word "slut" is thrown around way too often. Women are accused of being slutty after they do the most innocent things. Even if you are a woman who likes to sleep around, there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you're practicing safe sex and aren't breaking too many hearts. Of course, it doesn't matter if you're sexually active or a virgin, because these "slutty" things are actually healthy for you to do:
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1. Wear Revealing Clothing
It's healthy to be comfortable with the way your body looks. If you love your legs, then don't be afraid to wear short shorts. If you love your breasts, don't be afraid to show off some cleavage. You're not slutty for wearing revealing clothing. It's actually better for you to feel comfortable showing some skin than to be embarrassed by your looks.
2. Take Birth Control Pills
Some people will assume that you're sexually active, just because you're on birth control. Of course, that's far from the truth. Some women start the pill in order to regulate their periods. Even if you're on birth control, because you're sexually active, it means you're doing your best to prevent pregnancy. That's something to be proud of, not ashamed of.
Frequently asked questions
Believe it or not, things like wearing bold outfits, expressing your desires, or having open and honest communication about your needs can all be super healthy for your self-esteem and mental well-being.
Embracing your 'sluttiness' can help you build confidence, encourage you to live authentically, and promote a more positive body image. It’s about loving yourself and your choices.
Acting 'slutty'—or more accurately, being unapologetic about your sexuality—can reduce stress, boost happiness, and help you feel more liberated and in control of your life.
Absolutely! Wearing clothes that make you feel sexy and confident can be empowering. It’s about wearing what you love and what makes you feel good, not about what others think.
The key is to focus on your own happiness and confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people who love you for who you are, and remember that their judgment often says more about them than it does about you.
3. Make the First Move
If you like a guy, ask him out on a date. It's the twenty-first century, which means there's nothing wrong with the woman making the first move. If you want to kiss a guy, kiss him. If you want to take him out to dinner, then take him. It doesn't make you desperate. It makes you a strong woman.
4. Date Multiple Men
As long as you're not in a committed relationship with any one man, there's nothing wrong with going out on a date with one guy one day and another guy the next day. Don't settle for the first man who kisses you. The more men you meet, the higher your chances will be of finding someone who's actually right for you.
5. Be Comfortable Talking about Sex
You don't want to be the girl who giggles at the word "penis" in health class. You want to be the girl who sits there quietly and actually pays attention to what the teacher has to say. The more comfortable you are talking about sex, the more educated you'll become. So don't hold back your questions.
6. Have a Lot of Guy Friends
You probably aren't sleeping with all of your guy friends. Even if you are, it's healthy for you to be surrounded by men. That way, you'll learn how their brains work. When you end up in a serious relationship, the information you learned from them will come in handy.
7. Sleep with Someone You like
If you're educated about sex and want to sleep with someone you find attractive, then don't let other people's opinions stop you. Your sex life is none of their business. You should do what makes you happiest, because it's healthier to follow your heart than to follow the crowd.
Don't worry about the way that others perceive you, because they don't know what they're talking about. If they call you a name, then just ignore them, because you're too mature to deal with their childishness. Do you do any of these "slutty" things that are actually healthy?
Comments
sharon: @ Taylor sorry for the misunderstanding. No I didn't mean shame on you at all. I meant shame on those people who thinking taking birth control pills is wrong
Taylor: @sharon Shame on me? Because I take birth control pills and know for a fact bringing a baby into this world isn't for me right now? Wth is with all the mean comments in here. Everyone has different opinions
Brownsugar7: #6 is all good until one of those platonic guy friends becomes attached, and begins to hate on your other male relationships, lol.
Anaïs: Please, the "unlike you're in a relationship with a gay " was too much. I AM in a relationship and I SEE other because OH WELL my boyfriend loves to have a FREE and HAPPY woman as a girlfriend. I'm polyamorous and its OK. but whatever this article was gold !
Karen: I can post my opinion just like you all can call me ignorant for it. I stand by my opinion and think sleeping around is UNHEALTHY regardless to using birth control or protection from stds.
Brownsugar7: @Taylor lol, neither have I
shanianawaz: I feel ashamed of being a woman when I see the ignore of my sex when it comes to articles like this. Why don't you try reading it properly and understand the message before you preach your own point of view. You're the ones holding back feminism and female empowerment with your narrow minded and old-fashioned views.
Kimberly: Hate this. We don't need a man feel empowered!
Brownsugar7: @Sev this is true.
Diana: Since when 2,3&5 are slutty
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