7 Sexist Ways Women Treat Men That We Can't Ignore ...

Alison

Have you ever considered that the ways women treat men can also be sexist? We complain quite rightly if men treat us in a sexist fashion, but if we look at our own behavior we are often not guiltless ourselves. Here are some of the ways women treat men that we should be aware of …

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Female Careers

One of the sexist ways women treat men is when it comes to careers. We complain that certain careers are male dominated, and yet regard others as something only women should do. If a man wants to be a nurse or look after children, for example, he is seen as less masculine and should do something more suitable for a man.

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Helpless

Women can also see men as essentially overgrown children who are incapable of looking after themselves. They can't cook, clean, mend their clothes, buy socks, or pick up the right groceries. But is this really true? Certainly some men aren't good at these tasks, but we shouldn't assume that no man is capable of doing these basic things.

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Stereotypes

Be honest - have you ever muttered "they're all the same" when referring to men? Because all men can fix the car, want to play the field, and like to get drunk at weekends, right? Well, no. Some only want a committed relationship, hardly drink at all, and have no idea about what goes on under the hood of a car. We don't want men to stereotype us, and we shouldn't do the same to them.

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Can't Look after Kids

And how often do women assume that a man has no idea how to look after kids? Even mothers may be reluctant to leave a father in charge of his own baby. Many men are actually great with kids, including those that don't have kids of their own. And it's not because they're really only big kids themselves.

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Household Jobs

The popular image is that women get burdened with more of the household chores, even though they work full time. This may or may not be true. But how often do we treat men as if they can't do certain household tasks? Don't we also push them into doing strenuous jobs and leave the lighter tasks for ourselves? Girls, we have to do our share of mowing the lawn and moving furniture.

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Advertising

Advertising also treats men in a sexist fashion - it's not just women that experience this. Men are shown as helpless creatures and often ridiculed. They make a mess of the house and need a woman to rescue them. It's fair to assume that women are behind some of these commercials …

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Presumptions

We think we know men and what they want from life. This isn't really fair, and is another example of how we put men into the same category. Men are just as complicated as women are. Don't assume anything about a man based simply on his gender.

We are doing men and ourselves a disservice if we assume that they never experience sexism. I haven't even mentioned examples like men in the media and law. Is it right, for example, that men are named when falsely accused of rape, yet the woman remains anonymous? How do you think we are sexist towards men?

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Every man I have met does fit the stereotype so now that I have a son I am teaching him to be well rounded and know how to take care of himself by doing everything I have taught my daughters. Some lucky person will be blessed to have him in their lives someday. :)

These are all personal things for you, perhaps, but by stereotyping that all women believe all these things and do all these things, don't you turn your argument on its head? Being a woman and expecting that women are generally bad to men in these ways, you're back to vilifying women! I expected more from a site that seems to otherwise look to empower women.

I really like this article — there aren't enough articles about sexism against men. And I'm a girl so I'm not just saying that.

Sexism easily goes both ways....everyone needs to stop trying to be victims.

This would be a relevant argument if we lived in an equal society. However as it stands, women are paid less than men, constantly subject to harassment and are judged negatively for exhibiting behaviours that would be applauded in men. Should we manage to create a society in which this article is an actual issue, we will have come a long way.

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