17 Pieces of Dinner Etiquette a Lady Should Know ...

By Holly

17 Pieces of Dinner Etiquette a Lady Should Know  ...

When you're eating at home with your family, it doesn't matter if you eat with your mouth open or put your feet on the table. However, if you go out on a fancy date or attend a business meeting at a restaurant, you want to look elegant. So here are a few pieces of dinner etiquette that a lady should know:

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1

Place a Napkin over Your Lap

Place a Napkin over Your Lap When you first sit down at the table, you should grab your napkin and place it over your lap to avoid staining your clothes. If the napkin is small, unfold it all the way. If it's large, then only unfold it halfway.

2

Wait until Everyone is Served to Begin Eating

Wait until Everyone is Served to Begin Eating You don't want to dig into your food as soon as it's placed in front of you. Make sure that everyone else at the table has a meal before you take a bite of your own.

3

Keep Your Phone off

Keep Your Phone off If you can't stand the thought of turning your phone off, then you should at least put it on silent. You don't want it to beep in the middle of dinner. It's just plain rude.

4

Dont Reach across the Table

Dont Reach across the Table If you want a dish from the other side of the table, then ask someone to pass it to you. You never want to reach across the table. You don't want to place your elbows on the table while others are eating, either.

5

Cut Your Food One Piece at a Time

cartoon, anime, art, illustration, You don't want to cut apart your entire meal and then start eating it. You should cut a piece, eat it, and then cut another piece. Take your time.

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6

Hold Your Fork in Your Left Hand

Hold Your Fork in Your Left Hand Did you know that there's a "correct" way to hold your silverware? Since your fork should be in your left hand, your knife should be in your right hand.

7

Place Your Knife and Fork on Your Plate when You're Finished Eating

Place Your Knife and Fork on Your Plate when You're Finished Eating There are signals that will let your server know that you've finished your meal. All you have to do is place your knife and fork on your plate when you're finished eating.

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Good table manners are a must for any lady. Placing your knife and fork on your plate when you’re finished eating is one of the basic rules of dinner etiquette. This simple action is a signal to your server that you’ve finished your meal and are ready for the next course.

When placing your knife and fork on your plate, the knife should be placed on the right side with the blade facing inward. The fork should be placed on the left side, with the tines facing up. If you’ve finished eating and would like to take a break, you can place your knife and fork in the 4 o’clock position, with the knife on the right and the fork on the left.

It’s also important to remember that you should never start eating until everyone at the table has been served. This will ensure that all your guests are able to enjoy their meal together.

When you’re done eating, you should also remember to place your napkin on your chair or to the left of your plate. This will signal to your server that you’re finished eating.

8

Pass Food to the Right

Pass Food to the Right If someone asks you to pass them something, then you should pass it to the right. Remember that the right is "right."

9

Swirl Your Wine before Tasting It

Swirl Your Wine before Tasting It If you're given wine, you should start by looking at it, then swirl it in your glass, and then taste it.

10

Chew with Your Mouth Closed

Chew with Your Mouth Closed You don't want to chew with your mouth open. The other people at the table don't want to see the food in your mouth.

11

Don’t Talk with Your Mouth Full

Don’t Talk with Your Mouth Full If you should avoid chewing with your mouth open, then it should be obvious that you should avoid talking with your mouth full, as well. You don't want to spit food onto someone.

12

Blot Your Lips before Taking a Sip of Your Drink

Blot Your Lips before Taking a Sip of Your Drink Before you take a sip of your drink, you should blot your lips with a napkin. That way, you won't accidentally get any food pieces on your glass.

13

Cover Your Mouth when Sneezing or Coughing

cartoon, mangaka, anime, illustration, If you need to cough or sneeze, make sure to cover your mouth. You don't want to get your germs all over the food.

14

Close Your Menu when You're Ready to Order

Close Your Menu when You're Ready to Order If you want your waiter to come over and ask for your order, you should close your menu. That way, they'll know you're ready for them.

15

Don’t Gesture While Holding Utensils

Don’t Gesture While Holding Utensils If you have a knife or fork in your hand, you shouldn't gesture. If you want to talk with your hands, put your utensils down.

16

Let the Host Pick the Seating

Let the Host Pick the Seating Let the host pick where they want to sit before you pick a seat. After all, they're the one who planned the outing.

17

Compliment the Food

Compliment the Food It's polite to compliment the meal you're eating, especially if you're at someone's house. It's the least you can do.

Now you'll look elegant whenever you go out to eat! What other pieces of dinner etiquette have you learned?

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The fork out n your left hand... What about left handed people?

Greta tips nice article

Why is this article even needed unless you were raised by wolves you should know these things.

I always thought swirling your wine was pointless...

Excellent advice. Thank you.

This is table etiquette everyone should follow

I was told that a lady should never finish her plate of food. She should always leave some of her entree on her plate. Is this a valid or true statement

Great tip, thanks!

So how do you pass to the right if the person asking is to your left? I think your confusing serving food, but even then you serve food from the left and pour beverages on the right.....

Those tips are basics n should b known by everyone.. Would u write about the more sophisticated and professional etiquette tips ?

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