7 Things to Remember if You're an Introvert ...

If you’re an introvert, there have probably been more than a few instances that have left you uncomfortable. Whether it’s small talk or turning down an invitation to a party, there are often a few things you have to remember if you’re an introvert. It can be easy to feel uncomfortable if you’re not like those who love to hang out with large groups of people or go to karaoke bars. Rather than feel uncomfortable the next time you’re in one of these situations, try to remember these tips!

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You Don’t Need to Be at Every Party

If you’re like me and always feel guilty for missing things, like parties, stop. It’s perfectly fine if you want to skip a party every now and then. Don’t let guilt put you in situations you don’t want to be in. If you’re an introvert, you probably don’t always to be at that party, and you probably don’t want to be in big crowds all of the time. That’s okay!

You Might Be More Productive Alone

You might enjoy study groups and working in coffee shops, but you most likely prefer to work alone. If you do, don’t feel bad. It’s fine to love to work by yourself, and you may find that you’re even more productive on your own than in a group of people!

Don’t Let Yourself Shut down

As an introvert, you need time to recharge and recuperate after you’ve spent copious amounts of time in social situations. Rather than let yourself get to a point where you physically cannot keep going, try to recognize beforehand that you need a break. Your body and mental wellbeing will thank you!

You Don’t Need to Come out of Your Shell

Everyone probably tells you to come out of your shell. I know that I personally can’t count how many times I’ve been told this. You don’t need to come out of your shell, unless you’re becoming a shut-in, and then you have a different problem altogether. If you’re not a shut-in, don’t worry about the people telling you to change your life. Do what works for you.

Try Writing

Introverts often communicate better when they’re writing. Whether you prefer writing to in-person communication, or just need to write in a diary to get your thoughts out, writing might be the perfect hobby for you. It’s solitary, and can help you clear your thoughts.

Famous Quotes

To give oneself earnestly to the duties due to men, and, while respecting spiritual beings, to keep aloof from them, may be called wisdom.

Confucius

You Don’t Need a Lot of Friends

This goes back to coming out of your shell. You probably have a few good friends. You don’t need hundreds of friends, especially as an introvert. If you have one or two good friends, that’s all you need. You probably prefer it that way anyway!

Don’t Be Scared of New Activities

It can be easy to close yourself off from any new experiences. You’re unsure and nervous. Don’t be afraid! Try to adjust to the situation by watching before fully assimilating into it, and you won’t be as nervous to try something new!

Are you an introvert? Do you ever have these problems or experience something similar? What do you do to try to fix the problem? My go-to tip is to always just remove myself from situations I don’t want to be in, whether I’m feeling uncomfortable, or simply don’t feel like socializing anymore. Let me know your tips for introverts in the comments!

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This was really helpful. I want to throw up everytime someone asks me "whats wrong? why are you so quiet?". Ugh bitch, Im introverting lol

Introvert and proud!

I have a few tips. First, I have a job that requires me to talk a lot. I make a point of writing down my ideas so I can verbalize it more clearly. I've also learned to tell my husband and step Kidd that i need to be by myself for a while and no I'm not upset. Realizing that I needed to communicate my needs openly has really made a huge difference

My oldest son is an extrovert, he still can't fathom that I enjoy things such as taking a trip to the beach alone. My answer to people is this: "I like me, I enjoy spending time with myself. I don't need a bunch of people around me all the time to have a good time". The one tag put on us introverts that always bothered me was people thinking because someone is quiet they are snobby. I get along with everyone, I simply don't have the need to be constantly stimulated by a bunch of friends!

I never been to a single party in my life and honestly I don't feel like I'm missing out,the thought of being in a room with loads of people scares the absolute crap out of me,I'm a gamer girl I sooner curl up in comfy clothes and game then go to a party,sounds too exhausting lol

I am an introvert by nature but my life experiences forced me to be more extroverted. However, I am still most comfortable spending time by myself or a few close friends. I'm told by a lot of extroverts that I'm quiet, which always makes me feel as if I am lacking something. it's good to be reminded that being an introvert is not an affliction but a normal state of being. Great tips!

I'm guilty of this to! it kills me hold long ass serious conversations..it's like enough already!! I felt like I was weird at one point because I get so exausted from trying to entertain people from friends to family. my poor boyfriend, such a sweet guy for understanding what introvert means lol this was really helpful

wow this is me and people don't get it I enjoy my own company. I love to travel alone... it avoids the stressful pitfalls of going on vacation with friends and realizing you operate on different rhythms. I enjoy one on one quality time with my friends as oppose to big group gatherings. I think as you get older you learn to accept being who you are and if people don't like it c'est la vie!

Thank You Thank You !!! I can proudly say I am an introvert never had a name for it before! but I'm glad to know that I'm not alone in all this! these tips are really helpful!

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