You might be surprised at the power of social media and the impact it can have on many lives, especially when you find yourself in a “situation.”
That kind of situation.
It is the one where you are debating if the walk of shame is worse than sending out a nude picture.
Yeah…
Here's what to do after sending a nude photo.
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Apologize
This one sounds lame and cliché, but sending out an apology text when you are conscious or in a less embarrassed state of mind is the adult thing to do. Plus, you will feel a lot better.
Sending a heartfelt mea culpa can set the stage for mending bridges and reinforcing mutual respect. It's not just about saying sorry, but acknowledging your misstep with poise and sincerity. Remember, it's about taking responsibility and opening up a dialogue; it may not undo the action, but it paves the way for healing and growth. And don't worry about it being 'too late' - a genuine apology knows no time limit. So, take that deep breath, craft your words with care, and hit send. Your future self will thank you.
Drop It
If you do send out an apology text or call, just be prepared that this person (or people - depending on how enthusiastic you were - might not respond back).
Frequently asked questions
First off, don't panic. It's totally normal to regret sending a nude sometimes. Consider talking to the person you sent it to and asking them to delete the photo. Trust your gut and take care of your feelings.
Always make sure you trust the person fully. Maybe don't show your face or any unique features. Use apps that have disappearing photo options or strong encryption. Most importantly, only send if you're totally comfortable.
Document everything—screenshots, timestamps, any communications. Report it to the platform where it was shared. You may also want to consider telling a trusted friend or seeking legal advice. You have rights.
Take a few deep breaths. Talk to someone you trust about how you're feeling. It sometimes helps to remind yourself that everyone makes choices, and you are not alone in this experience. Self-care is key.
Absolutely! Lots of people enjoy sending and receiving nudes. It's a personal decision, and as long as it's consensual and safe, there's no judgment here. Just make sure you're doing it for you, and not because you feel pressured.
Delete That Text
Just do it, especially if you are mortified or want to break your phone in half.
Pretend It Never Happened
This one actually plays a bigger effect on the relationship or whoever you sent it to. Trust me, if you were drunk while sending that photo, the person may understand.
Ask for One in Return
Like, it does not hurt to try right?
Whether you were drunk or not when sending out that picture, there is always hope that it is possible to jump back and recover. After all, you must have sent out that sort of picture for a reason.
Have no shame and do not let a “situation” like this consume your ego. It happens. You will laugh about it weeks or - most likely - years from now.
And if you just happened to send a nudie picture out to someone you like…trust me, they will eventually talk to you. Otherwise, they are an idiot!
