There are advantages of being polite to strangers. We should be polite to everyone but we sometimes put a lower priority on being polite to strangers. We tend to let this slip past us and not make as much of an effort to do that. But there are advantages of being polite to strangers, as well as everyone we come in contact with. Let’s talk about them now.
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You Brighten Their Day
One of the advantages of being polite to strangers is that you brighten their day when you are. We all appreciate when someone is polite to us, don’t we? When I run into someone and they end up being a very sweet, polite person, I am often inspired. We can do that for the strangers that we encounter. We may make them want to be kinder to others by brightening their day with our politeness.
It's a ripple effect that often begins with a single act of courtesy. A simple smile or a kind word can inject a dose of positivity into someone's routine, potentially altering the course of their day. This positivity is contagious, spreading from one person to the next, creating a chain reaction of goodwill. Moreover, never underestimate the power of a small gesture; even holding a door or saying "thank you" can make a profound difference. As we navigate through the sea of faces we see each day, our politeness is a beacon of light that can guide others towards grace and friendliness.
You Feel Better about Yourself
When you are polite to others, even strangers, you feel better about yourself. Being kind always makes us feel good, just like being unkind makes us feel badly about ourselves. When you make the choice to be polite to everyone that you meet, you will feel better about yourself. That is definitely worth what little effort it takes to do that.
Exhibiting politeness to those we encounter in our daily lives can bolster our self-esteem and provide a sense of accomplishment. The positive energy you emit is often reflected back, affirming your own sense of self-worth and reinforcing your confidence. Furthermore, kindness begets kindness; by nurturing this cycle of goodwill, you help to create a more compassionate community. And, as with any skill, the more you practice civility, the more it becomes second nature, and the better you inevitably feel.
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It’s a Small World
Another reason to try to be polite to everyone that you meet is that it really is a small world. You just never know when that stranger that you were polite to may end up being your boss or the mother of a child your child becomes friends with. When that happens, you would much rather it be that you were polite to the person than you weren’t. I have actually had this happen to me; having someone I encountered as a stranger later become an acquaintance. It pays to be polite to strangers.
Moreover, kindness travels in mysterious ways - an act of courtesy or a simple smile can ripple through social circles and come back to you in unexpected forms. It's a kind of social karma; by being cordial to someone you meet in passing, you contribute to a culture of respect that might just make your own day better down the line. It's almost as if the universe takes note of these small gestures, often rewarding them when you least expect it. So, make politeness a habit; the world is much more interconnected than we sometimes believe.
You Know You Are Working on Becoming a Better Person
Being polite to strangers is something you do just because you are a good person. It is something you do when you are trying to make a genuine and sincere effort to be a good person. You can take pride in that. That is something to be pleased with yourself over. Give yourself credit where credit is due.
Indeed, acknowledging the value of politeness not only enriches the lives of those around you, but it also fosters a profound sense of self-growth. As you navigate through your day with a gentle word and a kind gesture, you subtly etch the lessons of empathy and understanding into your character. This conscious cultivation of virtue enhances your inner landscape, sculpting a version of you that's not only gracious in action but also serene in spirit. Politeness becomes more than mere manners; it's a testament to your evolving humanity.
Karma Can Be Your Friend
I truly, truly believe in karma. This shouldn’t be why you choose to be polite to strangers but it is a good thing to remember. How we treat others always comes back to us in one way or another. I have seen this happen in my life. Rest assured that being kind to others will come back to you in kindness.
By embracing polite interactions, we not only pave the way for a more harmonious society but also set the stage for unexpected positives in our own lives. Kindness is a boomerang, after all. When you offer a smile or a helping hand to someone you don't know, you're not just brightening their day, but you're also nurturing a culture of compassion that's likely to circle back. Imagine if someone needed a boost and your friendly gesture was it. That positivity is bound to ripple outward, and who knows, maybe the next person to reap the benefits of kindness will be you.
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You May Make a New Friend
You just never know when being polite to a stranger may end up in opening up a friendship to you. This can and does happen. After all, most of our friends were actually strangers at some point, weren’t they? Keeping in mind that being polite may end up bringing more friends your way is a good thought. It makes it easier to be polite on days when you may be dealing with stress that would perhaps otherwise result in impoliteness.
Opening the door to new connections, politeness serves as a social lubricant. In a chance encounter at a coffee shop or during a commute, a simple smile or courteous gesture could be the spark that ignites a lasting bond. Take delight in the possibility that each stranger you meet with kindness could become a future confidant or ally. Embrace the adventure of expanding your social circle—one polite interaction at a time.
It Improves Your Reputation
Being polite to everyone you meet, including strangers, improves your reputation. You may not think it but people do know how we treat others. Word gets around. A reputation grows from that. It is always worth the time and effort to be polite to strangers and everyone else we encounter.
Being polite to strangers has benefits even if it seems it doesn’t at first. What benefits do you think there are for being polite to strangers? Share with us.
