--- title: "Why It's Oh so Easy to Relate to Chandler Bing ..." description: "He Struggles with Social Awkwardness but Deals with It in His Own Special Way; He Has No Idea How to Handle Serious Problems – and Admits It; He is Insecure about His Future; He’s Emotionally Attached to His Devices; He Habors a Secret Desire to Be on American Idol; More ..." url: "https://lifestyle.allwomenstalk.com/why-its-oh-so-easy-to-relate-to-chandler-bing/" category: "lifestyle" last_updated: "2026-06-25" --- # Why It's Oh so Easy to Relate to Chandler Bing ... I’m amazed at how after so many years since it finished that Friends still occupies a major place in our hearts. We laughed and cried and lived their lives with them. And as much as I love Rachel, Monica and Phoebe and can relate to them as women, I think ultimately, it is Chandler that is more relatable in general. ## 1. He Struggles with Social Awkwardness but Deals with It in His Own Special Way ![He Struggles with Social Awkwardness but Deals with It in His Own Special Way](https://img.allw.mn/content/yo/qe/w6ocz63356573d1da708f995982165_500x300.gif) ## 2. He Has No Idea How to Handle Serious Problems – and Admits It ![He Has No Idea How to Handle Serious Problems – and Admits It](https://img.allw.mn/content/wy/p4/d4qnqsz856573d1e43c33957746389_500x273.gif) ## 3. He is Insecure about His Future ![He is Insecure about His Future](https://img.allw.mn/content/co/ep/yuxc6btm56573d1e4bf61905735649_500x283.gif) ## 4. He’s Emotionally Attached to His Devices ![He’s Emotionally Attached to His Devices](https://img.allw.mn/content/aj/hw/azv8qwqm56573d1ecdb17036548332_500x273.gif) ## 5. He Habors a Secret Desire to Be on American Idol [https://media.giphy.com/media/N0Lybz5bY3cUU/giphy.gif](https://media.giphy.com/media/N0Lybz5bY3cUU/giphy.gif) ## 6. He Has a Secret Happy Dance – Go on Admit It, You do Too ![He Has a Secret Happy Dance – Go on Admit It, You do Too](https://img.allw.mn/content/to/wv/yxiauxtz56573d2049d4a068266857_500x250.gif) ## 7. He Knows How to Correctly Respond to His Friends’ Questionable Fashion Choices ![He Knows How to Correctly Respond to His Friends’ Questionable Fashion Choices](https://img.allw.mn/content/wv/zw/al57ny7z56573d1f4c6d0385722706_461x307.gif) ## 8. He’s Good at Finding Little Things to Entertain Himself to Fill Bored Moments ![He’s Good at Finding Little Things to Entertain Himself to Fill Bored Moments](https://img.allw.mn/content/ou/id/m6xnfi2r56573d1fccfe0207192344_500x319.gif) ## 9. But He’s More Intelligent than You Think ![But He’s More Intelligent than You Think](https://img.allw.mn/content/j3/kk/u5wtphqq56573d1ff2587184175221_500x375.gif) ## 10. He’s Masterful at the Art of the Sarcastic Put down without Ever Being Nasty ![He’s Masterful at the Art of the Sarcastic Put down without Ever Being Nasty](https://img.allw.mn/content/ck/w6/cji3xkq856573d2078a5c039100458_500x275.gif) ## 11. He Knows That Sometimes Nothing Really Relevant Comes out of His Mouth ![He Knows That Sometimes Nothing Really Relevant Comes out of His Mouth](https://img.allw.mn/content/ue/ji/jw746v2f56573d22170d7685805014_500x299.gif) ## 12. And Sometimes, He’s Too Honest for His Own Good ![And Sometimes, He’s Too Honest for His Own Good](https://img.allw.mn/content/qq/f2/gxhks7n156573d2709021972240725_500x272.gif) ## 13. Somehow, Just Somehow, the Crazies in the World Seem to Find Him ![Somehow, Just Somehow, the Crazies in the World Seem to Find Him](https://img.allw.mn/content/hz/b6/q5fi1tu256573d24c1a76444906869_500x243.gif) ## 14. But then Sometimes, It Feels like He is One of the Crazies ![But then Sometimes, It Feels like He is One of the Crazies](https://img.allw.mn/content/ky/ou/a4o4ldb056573d27632c4663547282_500x266.gif) ## 15. He’s Had His Weight Ups and Downs ![He’s Had His Weight Ups and Downs](https://img.allw.mn/content/kq/zo/y14w14qc56573ddc12f57963935673_400x217.gif) ![He’s Had His Weight Ups and Downs](https://img.allw.mn/content/ft/lz/n0mu6wvp56573d284f431110207099_500x275.gif) ## 16. He’s Got Little Vices [https://media.giphy.com/media/B00FlsfwiGfOo/giphy.gif](https://media.giphy.com/media/B00FlsfwiGfOo/giphy.gif) ## 17. He’s Not Always Totally with the Program but It Doesn’t Dent His Enthusiasm for Friend’s Projects ![He’s Not Always Totally with the Program but It Doesn’t Dent His Enthusiasm for Friend’s Projects](https://img.allw.mn/content/u5/zr/u97g0of856573d2970c2a073265564_500x165.gif) ## 18. He’s Had Some Questionable Haircuts and Fashion Choices down the Years ![He’s Had Some Questionable Haircuts and Fashion Choices down the Years](https://img.allw.mn/content/ik/aq/wwmvvnsr56573d2b159b2198909900_500x280.gif) ## 19. He Knows the Importance of a Little Me Time ![He Knows the Importance of a Little Me Time](https://img.allw.mn/content/tf/l7/yorgojvn56573d2b2525d661279175_500x281.gif) ## 20. And He Knows That It’s Important to Celebrate the Little Successes ![And He Knows That It’s Important to Celebrate the Little Successes](https://img.allw.mn/content/j3/rg/p546jq8856573d2c0d857191327787_500x220.gif) ## 21. He’s Knows What His “thing” is but That Doesn’t Stop Him Being Insecure about It ![He’s Knows What His “thing” is but That Doesn’t Stop Him Being Insecure about It](https://img.allw.mn/content/am/rl/xlp88vpk56573d2f64f26213670126_500x210.gif) ## 22. He Finds It Easier to Ignore and Not Deal with His True Feelings ![He Finds It Easier to Ignore and Not Deal with His True Feelings](https://img.allw.mn/content/oj/d5/bm0i5p0756573d2e7eb21136744529_500x240.gif) ## 23. He Likes to Think He’s a Good Listener but Often His Mind Wanders ![He Likes to Think He’s a Good Listener but Often His Mind Wanders](https://img.allw.mn/content/wo/o3/af1xvlq756573d30e7a7f780090237_500x242.gif) ## 24. He Likes to Be Accepted ![He Likes to Be Accepted](https://img.allw.mn/content/mt/d0/zdf3qfwe56573d347d5c8562263124_500x316.gif) ## 25. Despite His Flaws, His Friends Adore Him and He Adores Them ![Despite His Flaws, His Friends Adore Him and He Adores Them](https://img.allw.mn/content/cm/w5/zqubkx8356573d339fa2e109752808_500x242.gif) ## 26. He Just Doesn’t Get the Mysteries of Love ![He Just Doesn’t Get the Mysteries of Love](https://img.allw.mn/content/vp/k8/x0qc288i56573d3283a02493055182_500x286.gif) ## 27. Yet, All He Wants is What Most of Us Want – Someone to Love and to Love Him Back ![Yet, All He Wants is What Most of Us Want – Someone to Love and to Love Him Back](https://img.allw.mn/content/b9/h4/q0z23mkq56573d3390c15670298566_500x284.gif) ## 28. And He Worries He is Unlovable ![And He Worries He is Unlovable](https://img.allw.mn/content/jl/g0/ho2ara2156573d3622cf2760957996_500x300.gif) ## 29. But Eventually He Gets His Girl – and She Was Right There under His Nose All the Time ![But Eventually He Gets His Girl – and She Was Right There under His Nose All the Time](https://img.allw.mn/content/ff/sf/oazhkj2d56573e51f34e1754630850_500x360.gif) All hail to the Bing! 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