Turning 30 is a major milestone in a woman’s life. And while it doesn’t mean that you’ve got it all figured out, there are some things that you should accomplish by this time. They’re good 👍 goals to aim 🎯 for when you’re in your 20s. Each of these will make your life 🌱 significantly richer.
1. Have a Direction ↙️ in Life
You don’t have to have everything in line, but it’s good 👍 to know what direction ◀️ you’re headed in when you turn 🎲 30. This is true career wise and for your personal 📃 life. If you don’t know what you want out of life 🌱 then it’s hard to achieve it. Take 🎬 some time 🕥 to think about that. Don’t limit yourself; it’s okay 🆗 to dream 💫 big!
2. Know What You do and Don’t Want in Relationships
I’m going 👣 to tell you a secret. Before I met my husband, I considered what I wanted in a relationship 👬 very carefully. In my typical analytical approach to life, I even made a list and lucky 🎰 for both of us, he made the cut! You don’t have to be as detailed as I was, but it’s a good 👍 idea 💡 to know what you do and don’t want out of a relationship. It helps you to approach dating 👬 with clear 🆑 direction.
3. Know Who You Are and What You Stand for
You don’t always know yourself well 👍 in the late teen 👱🏼 years and early 20s. And that’s totally okay. It takes time 🕡 to know who you are and what you stand for. But by the age 👵 of 30 you should have a good 👍 grasp on 🔛 your values and beliefs. If you aren’t there yet, you can spend 💴 some time 🕧 thinking 💭 on 🔛 it.
4. Overcome Body Hatred and Practice Self-love
It’s true that we all come to major revelations at different points in our lives. This is one 1️⃣ I’ve only recently learned and I’m thankful 😌 to have finally got it. For years, I’ve been my own 🈶 worst critic! But recently I had an epiphany moment where I thought, you know, I need to love 👬 this body I’ve been given. We’re each uniquely beautiful in our own 🈶 way and we need to appreciate that!
5. Know What Works for You in Fashion, Beauty 💅🏽 & Hairstyles
Going 👣 along with loving 💏 yourself just as you are, by the age 👵 of 30, you should know what works for you. But if you don’t, you can still learn. It’s all about making the most of what you’ve got! Learn 📕 what colors and cuts of fabric look 💇 best on 🔘 you. Figure ⬜ out what makeup 💄 look 💇 is the most flattering. And find a hairstyle 💇 that makes you look 💇 and feel attractive.
6. Realize Life 💓 is What You Make It
No 🙅 one 1️⃣ gets through life 💓 without some difficulties. Every one 1️⃣ of us wears inner scars. But life 💓 is so very much what you make of it. Focus on 🔛 all the beautiful things in your life. Troubles may drag you down ⏬ but don’t let them pull you under. Being an overcomer of life 💓 challenges gives you inner strength.
7. Learn 📕 Life 💓 Lessons from the Difficulties You’ve Been through
When you go through something difficult in your life, be open 🈳 to the lessons from it. There are lessons in everything we face. You may learn 📕 to be kinder because of someone’s unkindness to you or to be grateful because you watched someone close to you drown themselves in self-pity. Life 🌱 has so much to teach us in every situation we go through. By age 👵 30, you should be able to see that there’s a lesson in everything that can help you grow 🌱 as a person.
These are 7 things every woman 👩 should accomplish by the age 👵 of 30. What are your thoughts? Have you reached any of these goals yet?