You can't stress yourself out by worrying about the way you look in other people's eyes. You need to stop giving a damn. It'll be hard to change your mindset, but here are a few things that you should stop giving a damn about:
1. Impressing Men
You should be living for yourself. If you impress a man in the process, then that's great. But don't set out to make a guy happy when you should be focusing on making yourself happy.