3. She Gossips about You or Puts You down

Have you heard from mutual friends or acquaintances that your frenemy has been talking smack about you behind your back? Regardless of whether she tries to play the whole thing off like she was kidding, she should not be talking about you behind your back, period. If she talks about others she considers friends, she’s likely doing it to you too. True friends wouldn’t gossip or put down other friends and wouldn’t say things about them behind their back that they wouldn’t say to their face.