If you are out in a crowd or casually eating your lunch, you have likely noticed the many forms of expression and different types of talkers out there. Talking is as much about body language as it is about words. Have you ever used your hands while talking? I have, too! (hand in the air) And I still do, along with many other people. We all have a different way of talking that suits our personalities and expresses our ideas! In no particular order, I give you seven types of talkers.
One of the most entertaining types of talkers is the hand waver. You know this type of talker. I know I do – I am one! This type of talker is quite expressive with their hands, waving them about as if conjuring magic; punctuating the air with each gesture. It’s entertaining to watch the hand waver but be careful to not get in the way. Psychology Today says that waving hands while talking and other body movements such as walking actually helps the speaker with articulation and speed.
Seeing two people talk like this reminds me of a certain Seinfeld episode involving a close talker. This type of talker likes to stand very close to you while speaking. Depending on your relationship with the person speaking to you it can feel a little uncomfortable. The close proximity makes it look as though you are sharing a secret! Sometimes the close talker is also a whisperer. The combination of stance and volume not only gives the appearance of secrecy but also makes you feel as though you are listening to one! In some cultures, standing close together while talking demonstrates trust.
This type of talker seems to never blink! The gaze is intense and a bit overwhelming to the point of being a little creepy – even if the intentions are good. The staring person focuses all their attention on you. They are interested in what you have to say and want to engage your thoughts and opinions. This is fantastic! But it is also a little disconcerting, causing you to check for food on your face or a misplaced hair. Staring can also indicates deception.
Talking with someone who doesn’t look at you can be off-putting. However, the talker with averted eyes isn’t always distracted or not interested in your company. There are many cultures all over the world which value averted eyes. In such cultures, people do not look each other in the eye – especially strangers. These cultures believe that averting your eyes is a demonstration of respect.
Oh gosh, the full body motion talker is a wonder to behold! My best friend is a master of this type of talking. She uses not only hand gestures but also arm gestures and re-enactments! It is quite entertaining. Sometimes the full body motion talker will pace the floor, utilizing a more toned down manner of expression. The full body motion talker doesn’t sit still very long. The motion helps them process thoughts, formulate expressions, and articulate – much like the hand waver.
Have you ever noticed that some people move their eyebrows when they talk? The facial acrobat is another interesting type of talker. Similar to the hand waver and full body motion talkers, the facial acrobat punctuates their statements with visual emotion.
Talking fast and articulately is an amazing ability. This type of talker is focused purely on getting the words out. Sometimes this means increasing the speed of their speech. A fast talker has lots to say and there never seems to be enough time for them to say it. Talking fast can indicate nervousness or excitement. A fast talker will often incorporate any or all of the aforementioned types of body language.
We express ourselves in a variety of different ways – some are fascinating and entertaining! These are just a few different types of talkers that we noticed. Have you noticed any of these types of talkers? Or others? Please, share!
Source: psychologytoday.com