I can't underestimate the value and privilege of an education, however there are some things that you only learn in the real world that I so wished I learned in high school and even college! If you're currently in school, this vital list of life skills will help you have a mental checklist of what to brush up on before entering the world on your own. Here are 7 important things that you only learn in the real world that I hope you find useful as well as interesting!
1. Managing the Budget and Finances
Oh man, this is one of the biggest and most important things that you only learn in the real world- money management. Paying bills, managing your bank account, filling out tax returns, insurance details, buying a house, and managing a budget are all crucial skills that aren't taught in high school but are super critical once you live on your own. As a parent, I want to make sure my children have a basic understanding of what it means to manage money and run a household before they are thrown into it!
2. Changing a Flat Tire and Car Oil
I wish I knew how to change a flat tire. I keep thinking I'll learn in case I'm actually stuck somewhere with a flat and have to call for assistance, but I never get around to it. Same thing goes for changing your own oil. Many mechanics will try and rip you off and suggest things that you "need" to get done to your car. In reality, most suggestions aren't critical and they're just preying on ignorant customers (usually women). It helps to have some practical skills like changing a flat tire and the oil in your car.
3. Taking Critique and Criticism Well
Unlike high school and even college, the real world comes with some harsh realities, such as an awful employer. Many times they could care less about hurting your "self-esteem" that's highly emphasized in your education and are simply focused on productivity and achievement. Learn how to deal with criticism and critique from a superior and you'll go far. Also know when you're being verbally abused and stand your ground. Both are equally important!
4. Searching and Applying for Jobs
Once you're done with your education, and maybe even before, you'll need to start applying for jobs, which means you'll need to have the know-how skills of writing a resume, filling out job applications, and how to perform during the interview process. Seek the help you need while applying for jobs but certainly do your homework well in advance so you're equipped to handle the pressures of the job hunt.
5. Responding with Appropriate Social Norms
Something school doesn't teach you is how to respond to situations appropriately and professionally with your words and actions. People who come off as confident, knowledgeable, and respectful will go a long way in life, which is why it's important to practice these skills right now!
6. Managing Your Time Well
I'm sure you've experienced the repercussions when you don't manage your time well. Stress, anxiety, and lack of confidence and abilities all play a factor when you don't manage your time wisely. Set priorities, reach your goals, and accomplish what you need to accomplish. If you're not good at managing your time, a couple tips would be to first make a list of priorities. Secondly, you should take away all distractions. My iPad is a distraction for me when I need to get stuff done so I put it away in order to be more productive.
7. Planning and Scheduling
Once you're on your own, you'll be amazed at how much planning and scheduling is involved in your daily routine. You have to factor in weekly meals, doctor appointments, work-related events and meetings, time with friends, and miscellaneous errands. When you're a mom, add to the list all the fun stuff that kids have going on, like school, sports, music, and friends. It's a whirlwind of busy and without a proper schedule in place, you can miss important events and create unnecessary chaos in your life.
There you have it- a list of life skills that you're not taught in school but are super important to learn and master! What are some life skills that you would add to this list?