--- title: "A Woman's Guide on How to Be a Good BFF" description: "Make Time for Them; Be Happy for Them Even when You Are Jealous; Sometimes, It is Hard for Us to Cry Alone; Ask Yourself What You Have Done for Them Lately; Show Gratitude; More ..." url: "https://lifestyle.allwomenstalk.com/how-to-be-a-good-bff/" category: "lifestyle" last_updated: "2026-06-17" --- # A Woman's Guide on How to Be a Good BFF Every woman should know **how to be a good BFF**. Being a great best friend does not take rocket science, but it does require a little tender loving care. After some good research, I found what I would like to be as a BFF and hope you would like to be the same. Everything from sending care packages to showing gratitude is included. Read on for further ideas on **how to be a good BFF**. ## 1. Make Time for Them It is important to show your friends that you want to be around them and that you are taking time out of your busy schedule to be with them. Whether it is a quick coffee date or finding [fun things to do with your best friend](https://lifestyle.allwomenstalk.com/fun-things-to-do-with-your-best-friend/), making the effort is one of the best answers for **how to be a good BFF**. ## 2. Be Happy for Them Even when You Are Jealous It is not all about your hurt feelings. True friendship is about their happiness. Celebrating their successes genuinely strengthens your bond. ## 3. Sometimes, It is Hard for Us to Cry Alone When going through difficult times, having someone you can really let your pain out with can be invaluable. If your friend is struggling, knowing how to listen can make all the difference, and resources like [Psychology Today's guide on friendship](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/friends-and-relationships) offer great insights. ## 4. Ask Yourself What You Have Done for Them Lately Do you generously lend your time and care? Reflect on your recent interactions and ensure you are offering the same support you expect in return. ## 5. Show Gratitude Think about how it makes you feel to help someone who shows appreciation versus someone who does nothing. Give what you can, including thanks, and you will be sure to find karma in your favor. A simple thank you note or text can go a long way. ## 6. Pump up the Positive Cheer for and support each other. Try something new together and take plenty of photos. Publicly and privately affirm each other to build confidence and trust. ## 7. If You're Long-distance, Send Care Packages Long-distance friendships take extra work, but they are incredibly rewarding. Try sending a framed photo of the two of you, a nice candle, or even setting up a [regular video call](https://lifestyle.allwomenstalk.com/how-to-maintain-a-long-distance-friendship/). You could also order a thoughtful gift box from a service like [Sugarwish](https://www.sugarwish.com/). ## 8. Be Yourself This is what makes you best friends in the first place. Authenticity is the foundation of any strong relationship. So, which tip was your favorite? Have you learned anything from this article? Although we are not in elementary school anymore, it is easy to get caught up in wanting to fit in. 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