The word "slut" is thrown around way too often. Women are accused of being slutty after they do the most innocent things. Even if you are a woman who likes to sleep around, there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you're practicing safe sex and aren't breaking too many hearts. Of course, it doesn't matter if you're sexually active or a virgin, because these "slutty" things are actually healthy for you to do:
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1. Wear Revealing Clothing
It's healthy to be comfortable with the way your body looks. If you love your legs, then don't be afraid to wear short shorts. If you love your breasts, don't be afraid to show off some cleavage. You're not slutty for wearing revealing clothing. It's actually better for you to feel comfortable showing some skin than to be embarrassed by your looks.
Believe it or not, things like wearing bold outfits, expressing your desires, or having open and honest communication about your needs can all be super healthy for your self-esteem and mental well-being.
Embracing your 'sluttiness' can help you build confidence, encourage you to live authentically, and promote a more positive body image. It’s about loving yourself and your choices.
Acting 'slutty'—or more accurately, being unapologetic about your sexuality—can reduce stress, boost happiness, and help you feel more liberated and in control of your life.
Absolutely! Wearing clothes that make you feel sexy and confident can be empowering. It’s about wearing what you love and what makes you feel good, not about what others think.
The key is to focus on your own happiness and confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people who love you for who you are, and remember that their judgment often says more about them than it does about you.
2. Take Birth Control Pills
Some people will assume that you're sexually active, just because you're on birth control. Of course, that's far from the truth. Some women start the pill in order to regulate their periods. Even if you're on birth control, because you're sexually active, it means you're doing your best to prevent pregnancy. That's something to be proud of, not ashamed of.
Believe it or not, things like wearing bold outfits, expressing your desires, or having open and honest communication about your needs can all be super healthy for your self-esteem and mental well-being.
Embracing your 'sluttiness' can help you build confidence, encourage you to live authentically, and promote a more positive body image. It’s about loving yourself and your choices.
Acting 'slutty'—or more accurately, being unapologetic about your sexuality—can reduce stress, boost happiness, and help you feel more liberated and in control of your life.
Absolutely! Wearing clothes that make you feel sexy and confident can be empowering. It’s about wearing what you love and what makes you feel good, not about what others think.
The key is to focus on your own happiness and confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people who love you for who you are, and remember that their judgment often says more about them than it does about you.
3. Make the First Move
If you like a guy, ask him out on a date. It's the twenty-first century, which means there's nothing wrong with the woman making the first move. If you want to kiss a guy, kiss him. If you want to take him out to dinner, then take him. It doesn't make you desperate. It makes you a strong woman.
Believe it or not, things like wearing bold outfits, expressing your desires, or having open and honest communication about your needs can all be super healthy for your self-esteem and mental well-being.
Embracing your 'sluttiness' can help you build confidence, encourage you to live authentically, and promote a more positive body image. It’s about loving yourself and your choices.
Acting 'slutty'—or more accurately, being unapologetic about your sexuality—can reduce stress, boost happiness, and help you feel more liberated and in control of your life.
Absolutely! Wearing clothes that make you feel sexy and confident can be empowering. It’s about wearing what you love and what makes you feel good, not about what others think.
The key is to focus on your own happiness and confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people who love you for who you are, and remember that their judgment often says more about them than it does about you.
4. Date Multiple Men
As long as you're not in a committed relationship with any one man, there's nothing wrong with going out on a date with one guy one day and another guy the next day. Don't settle for the first man who kisses you. The more men you meet, the higher your chances will be of finding someone who's actually right for you.
Believe it or not, things like wearing bold outfits, expressing your desires, or having open and honest communication about your needs can all be super healthy for your self-esteem and mental well-being.
Embracing your 'sluttiness' can help you build confidence, encourage you to live authentically, and promote a more positive body image. It’s about loving yourself and your choices.
Acting 'slutty'—or more accurately, being unapologetic about your sexuality—can reduce stress, boost happiness, and help you feel more liberated and in control of your life.
Absolutely! Wearing clothes that make you feel sexy and confident can be empowering. It’s about wearing what you love and what makes you feel good, not about what others think.
The key is to focus on your own happiness and confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people who love you for who you are, and remember that their judgment often says more about them than it does about you.
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5. Be Comfortable Talking about Sex
You don't want to be the girl who giggles at the word "penis" in health class. You want to be the girl who sits there quietly and actually pays attention to what the teacher has to say. The more comfortable you are talking about sex, the more educated you'll become. So don't hold back your questions.
Believe it or not, things like wearing bold outfits, expressing your desires, or having open and honest communication about your needs can all be super healthy for your self-esteem and mental well-being.
Embracing your 'sluttiness' can help you build confidence, encourage you to live authentically, and promote a more positive body image. It’s about loving yourself and your choices.
Acting 'slutty'—or more accurately, being unapologetic about your sexuality—can reduce stress, boost happiness, and help you feel more liberated and in control of your life.
Absolutely! Wearing clothes that make you feel sexy and confident can be empowering. It’s about wearing what you love and what makes you feel good, not about what others think.
The key is to focus on your own happiness and confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people who love you for who you are, and remember that their judgment often says more about them than it does about you.
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6. Have a Lot of Guy Friends
You probably aren't sleeping with all of your guy friends. Even if you are, it's healthy for you to be surrounded by men. That way, you'll learn how their brains work. When you end up in a serious relationship, the information you learned from them will come in handy.
Believe it or not, things like wearing bold outfits, expressing your desires, or having open and honest communication about your needs can all be super healthy for your self-esteem and mental well-being.
Embracing your 'sluttiness' can help you build confidence, encourage you to live authentically, and promote a more positive body image. It’s about loving yourself and your choices.
Acting 'slutty'—or more accurately, being unapologetic about your sexuality—can reduce stress, boost happiness, and help you feel more liberated and in control of your life.
Absolutely! Wearing clothes that make you feel sexy and confident can be empowering. It’s about wearing what you love and what makes you feel good, not about what others think.
The key is to focus on your own happiness and confidence. Surround yourself with supportive people who love you for who you are, and remember that their judgment often says more about them than it does about you.
7. Sleep with Someone You like
If you're educated about sex and want to sleep with someone you find attractive, then don't let other people's opinions stop you. Your sex life is none of their business. You should do what makes you happiest, because it's healthier to follow your heart than to follow the crowd.
Don't worry about the way that others perceive you, because they don't know what they're talking about. If they call you a name, then just ignore them, because you're too mature to deal with their childishness. Do you do any of these "slutty" things that are actually healthy?
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Comments
Taylor: Had no idea people thought taking birth control was slutty lol. I don't know what I'd do if birth control never existed (probably stay a virgin for life ha..)
Tayliscious: All the other side stuff is not being a slut, the definition of a slut is someone with many casual sex partners
Boncheri1: Some good points - like the multiple dates, me personally don't sex dates, but true if none are going to commit to say "you are my girl" I am free to go out on dates
Martin: Hi baby
Naomi: Holly's articles are pretty damaging to female empowerment all-round!
Scarlett: Interesting. I'd like to add that science has proven sex (especially orgasm) is actally good for your health in many ways. For example, menopausal women can prevent vaginal atrophy (use it or lose it) by having the Big O regularly. Would love to see an article about this. There wouldnt even need to be any pesky values judgements in the title. ;)
Karen: I can post my opinion just like you all can call me ignorant for it. I stand by my opinion and think sleeping around is UNHEALTHY regardless to using birth control or protection from stds.
sharon: @ Taylor sorry for the misunderstanding. No I didn't mean shame on you at all. I meant shame on those people who thinking taking birth control pills is wrong
Cindy: Worst piece of advice I've read in a while.
Brownsugar7: #6 is all good until one of those platonic guy friends becomes attached, and begins to hate on your other male relationships, lol.
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