Home is best for many people – they like to stick with what they know, and don´t yearn for new horizons. I enjoy living abroad, but it´s not for everyone, and I know plenty of people who feel that home is best. They prefer being among familiar customs and culture. But what if you´re tempted to move away but aren´t quite sure? Here are some reasons why there is no place like home …
One of the main reasons why there is no place like home is that staying where you grew up or in your home country gives you a sense of familiarity. You know how everything works, what the culture is like, and you don´t feel confused by cultural differences. Familiarity can be very comforting – not everyone wants to deal with the adventure of moving away from home.
Unless you move to a country that shares your own language, moving abroad can be daunting. You can pick up the basics of a new language fairly quickly, but it takes a long time to become fluent – and I do mean a long time! Staying in your home country means that you have no communication problems and no linguistic confusion.
Personally I´ve enjoyed the challenge of living abroad, and feel that it has helped me develop greatly as a person. It´s a lot of hard work though and not everyone wants to or can deal with the demands involved. Remaining in your home country means that you´re making your life easier – and what´s wrong with that?
If you´re emotionally close to your family, then that is a pretty good argument for believing that home is best. If you are also close to them geographically, you can make the most of that close relationship and see them as often as you want. Moving away means that you can really miss them and miss out on enjoying their company.
When you´ve lived in the same place for a long time, you build up a lot of connections. Moving away means starting again and finding a new set of friends etc. If you´re one of those people who finds it difficult to start from scratch, you may be better off sticking with what you know if moving would make you miserable.
In your home country, you know how everything works. There are no problems with communication and you´re completely familiar with everything from administration to the law. This knowledge can make life a lot easier – believe me, I know how difficult it is trying to negotiate your way through the confusion of foreign bureaucracy!
Some people can just pull up their roots and move on easily. For many, though, it is not that simple. Having your roots in a particular area can have great significance for someone – they feel a strong connection to their hometown, and moving away would feel like a great loss to them .
Humans are social creatures, and we all like to feel that we belong somewhere. This may be based on belonging to an area, or to a group. If this is particularly important to you, then the chances are that home is best. Your identity can be very firmly linked to the area in which you grew up, and where your family come from.
Although I was happy to move away, I know that there are plenty of reasons why there is no place like home for many people. We´re not all adventurous, and staying at home doesn´t mean that you´ve missed out. Moving away can be a great experience, but you have to want to do it. Do you feel that home is best; have you dreamt of moving abroad but concluded that it´s better off as a dream?
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