Most people will tell you that the need for revenge is unhealthy and toxic. They'll advise you to avoid it at all costs. I am not most people. I think that when you channel it properly, the desire to get revenge can be an unstoppable motivator. You can't let it take over your life and you shouldn't rely on it all the time, but for some of us, it's the thing that finally serves as a catalyst for change. It might not work for you and that's totally cool. It works for me, though!
1. Get Mad
If you feel the need to get revenge in the first place, something or someone made you mad. Someone really upset you, pissed you off, or wronged you horribly. So get mad. Use it. Anger fuels you, too. Sometimes I have to be mad to move, otherwise, I just remain in stasis out of anxiety. Anger gets me going. It's true for some of us, what can I say?